[the truth]

Originally Posted by kizzy

I don't think anyone should be discussing it other than the person themselves affected, by any means they can.
There should be at least a 12 month delay from the initial suggestion to a final desision and trained councillors to mediate in the interim.
I'm not suggesting those affected won't have thought long and hard, and family will have their own veiw but the impartial voice of a third party may help?

Im not sure how you can police who discusses this, but I take your point

I know for bitter experience how duplicitous, sly, corrupt, dangerous and back stabbing family members and so called friends can be when elederly relatives get ill. no one offers to help out, nearly everyone whispers behind the persons back, stick him in a home, then go out and enjoy yourself

we are brutally callous often in dealing with old people. lets face it the only way old people get treated well , is if they commit a crime in their old peoples home and get sent to prison. compared to an old care home, prisoners get treated like kings

this is another massive issue that needs addressing