[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Ammi this is making me think of those moral dilemmas you used to do, we need another of those!

..yeah, I love those..I'll try to google some tomorrow..see if I can find some new ones....

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

True, poor girl. Sad thing is people can't help who they fall for. Now she has to deal with those feelings while the guy goes on with his relationship. ......or she could poke the guy's girlfriend on facebook and go on Jeremy kyle Why she guy be happy while girl drowns in his made-destruction?

..the thing is they can ITILY2...they totally control who they fall for..for instance if I ever thought I could be even in the slightest way attracted to someone other than my partner...I would make sure I was never in the position were I could ever be tempted...that's in out control..to think that an initial attraction could stay as a friendship without any emotions becoming hurt is just niave...but worst of all..his partner will become hurt most when she didn't pursue anything...she will still see this as a betrayal...