[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..if you were in a loving relationship Alex.. and you and your partner made a decision to have a surrogate baby...you were both really excited and it was very much planned and wanted..and then the surrogate decided to abort the baby...would you like to have a say in that decision...ideally, I mean..?...

..I know that perhaps the surrogate may have good reason and that the decision would probably be more hers...and it is as Vicky said, something were there's no definitive answer...the problem is that kind of every abortion would have to be looked at differently and that would never happen....

If i ever used a surrogate, I still don't think I should be able to FORCE the surrogate to carry through the pregnancy if she changed her mind. Obviously I would be deeply disappointed, but I would still support her right to choose.