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Originally Posted by Niamh.
Yeah we do
Well, it should be primarily Daley at fault as he's the one who owed her something and is in a relationship with her, Hazel never even met her (again not excusing her behaviour just pointing that out) but you would think poor Daley is just an innocent who's being corrupted by the evil woman. Like for example If I were in there and some guy was all over me like that, he'd know when to back off because I would make sure he did. If Daley really wanted Hazel to back off, he could properly let her know, at the moment it's very no means yes....... Telling someone you don't want them to hug you because they're making you aroused is not really telling them to back off, is it?
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So if Simon Baker was in the house with you asking for hugs you'd be telling him to back off eh?
I agree that Daley needs to do more but I just cant like what Hazel is doing. Daley has said no on a number of occasions and whether its a man or woman no should mean no; in my mind there is no such thing no means yes.
Also, knowing that hugging someone is making them aroused but still insisting and not taking no for an answer is quite close to harassment. Hazel can do without the occasional hug but she still insists knowing what she's doing to the man. Now its getting more complicated cuz some will argue that she can do what she wants etc and they are right. I'm a believer in behaviour modification. If something is causing a problem then you have to stop doing it. Hazel knows what she's doing Daley could be a bit more assertive and he has a gf; all in all its a complicated situation that turning into compelling viewing.