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| BB14 Channel 5's Big Brother: Secrets and Lies (aka Big Brother 14) started June 13th 2013 and was won by Sam Evans. Discuss the series and housemates here. |
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Oh not sure where to even begin!
I was all set to hear Daley's side of the story, give him the benefit of the doubt that he was truly sorry etc. A forum member called Toy Soldier has made some great posts earlier today which I mainly agreed with. The giving him the benefit of the doubt side of me felt along the lines that maybe the two of them were just engaging in a bit of flirting and rough flirting but that Daley took it too far. Hazel got frightened, but Daley was not even aware at the time that he had crossed the line and still felt he was just playing an aggressive 'role' as part of their flirting. Yes he was still completely in the wrong for crossing that line and becoming scary to a woman who didn't know him well enough to know that he wouldn't really hurt her, and therefore it was correct that he was removed from the house. Hazel even said tonight that he is a really decent guy and that she didn't want to see him get labelled as something nasty because of this. So yeah, I was all set to buy that explanation, hear his side and for him to have his chance to apologise. What I ended up seeing disgusted me. All he did was apologise to any woman who may have been offended by what they saw, no mention of the men who were upset at what they saw, and most importantly of all, not even the tiniest bit of an apology for how his actions made Hazel feel! He still looks absolutely fuming at Hazel and said he won't even waste his breath on her. Wtf like? Why the hell has he got so much anger towards her? If he was really not a violent bloke, would he not be mortified that he caused a woman he liked to be afraid? Even if Hazel seemed okay afterwards. Even if they were both playing and he felt it was completely unintentional, any decent person would still apologise. If I was having say for example a jokey slagging match with a friend and I said something that cut a bit too close to the bone. Even if they pretended it was ok, but I later found out that I had in fact hurt their feelings I would be so sorry and would apologise straight away to them. I can't understand why Daley isn't sorry for frightening Hazel or why he won't apologise. I can see why he didn't apologise in the house because she didn't tell him how she felt, but surely now that he has seen the footage and seen that she was scared and maybe just afraid to bring it up with him, - how can he not feel sorry for that? Sorry but that proves to me he is a nasty person. He has no remorse for upsetting a woman he claimed to have feelings for. All he did tonight was was try to garner sympathy of everyone, and to give excuse after excuse for anything wrong he has done in the house. On one hand he kept saying he had to "man up and take responsibility" for his actions, yet on the other hand he blamed the amount he had to drink, and blamed Hazel for him "crossing lines" when it came to their earlier flirting. I believe he is lying about the amount he had to drink. I have said this repeatedly that Hazel said in the life feed "you shouldn't be drunk on 2 glasses of champagne and a mojito" and he only argued that who was she to say what amount should make him drunk. Maybe I misheard her, or maybe she meant to say 2 bottles of champagne? I personally don't believe that BB would have allowed Daley to drink 4 individual drinks and 2 bottles of champagne to himself. Absolute bull, and it's funny how sober he was going to the diary room. As for the **** about him saying that he kept asking Hazel "as a woman" was he crossing any lines with their earlier flirting and she said no. So fcking what about what Hazel said! He knew perfectly well that he went so far with Hazel that "the line" was only a distant fcking memory at some point. I have never been a fan of Hazel, I found her flirting horrible, yes I know she's single but I still didn't agree with her flirting. BUT it was NOT Hazel's responsibility to inform him as to whether or not he was crossing lines. He's a grown man who knew already himself exactly what he was doing. Before I was unsure - the LF from that night made me think he was acting like a weirdo and his behaviour would have made me personally feel uncomfortable but I wasn't sure if they were just flirting? From what I have seen tonight though I am no longer sure that what happened was just a bit of flirting gone much too far. Tonight I have seen a nasty streak in him due to him having no remorse to Hazel, and he just comes across as nasty, and spineless to me now. I watched it on +1 and it just made me so mad that he wasn't even asked after he apologised to the viewers, "but what about Hazel?" ![]() I repeat I am not a fan of Hazel but I did feel sorry for her tonight. I'll no doubt be cross with her again when she's mean to Gina but she is not in the wrong here for getting afraid. Really sorry for the long post, I had to vent my frustration. Going to bed now. |
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