[Braden]

We had a discussion on cheating the other day in one of my classes. It basically stemmed from the fact that a male in my year has been going back and forth to three different girls (one he's been dating for three years), and they seem to be taking their anger out on each other rather than him.

I would never say that cheating is acceptable because it can ruin a lot of things, especially if the person cheating is married and has kids.

Being 18, at this moment in time I can't imagine being committed to someone. I just don't understand how people can stay with one person, I'd rather keep my options open. But that's just my opinion generally, and I've never been in a genuine relationship where I loved someone, so maybe my view would change after I've had my first bf.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Braden

We had a discussion on cheating the other day in one of my classes. It basically stemmed from the fact that a male in my year has been going back and forth to three different girls (one he's been dating for three years), and they seem to be taking their anger out on each other rather than him.
I would never say that cheating is acceptable because it can ruin a lot of things, especially if the person cheating is married and has kids.

Being 18, at this moment in time I can't imagine being committed to someone. I just don't understand how people can stay with one person, I'd rather keep my options open. But that's just my opinion generally, and I've never been in a genuine relationship where I loved someone, so maybe my view would change after I've had my first bf.

..yeah, I never really can understand why people seem to be more angry with the person the partner has cheated with than they are with the partner themselves...

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..yeah, I never really can understand why people seem to be more angry with the person the partner has cheated with than they are with the partner themselves...

Yes, but this is usually the case. I've done it myself, it's human nature - you want to blame the other person rather than analyse your relationship and accept your other half preferred someone else however briefly.