[smudgie]

No.
When I as a kid and nicking off school we used to go to the graveyard and read all the headstones, out of curiosity.
I have been to the graveside at the funeral but never gone back.
You carry the memory of loved ones within you, all that is in the ground is bones.
We tend to go the cremation route this last generation, which reminds me, my dad is on the top of my wardrobe, I must move him, I don't want him in the room if any shenanigans are occurring.