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Originally Posted by Jack_
That last sentence is a complete contradiction. You can't be a 'radical liberal' and have a 'straight jacket of made up rules'. Liberalism (in its social form) is about being open minded, tolerant, believing that the paradigms of the world are liable to change, freedom etc etc the list goes on. There is no solid set of rules within liberal thinking. Make up your mind  - YES THATS WHY YOUR POSITION MAKES NO SENSE AT ALL. YOU ONLY WELCOME DIFFERENT PEOPLE IF THEY AGREE WITH ALL THAT YOU SAY.
Sexuality is a spectrum and various people fall on different places along the line. It is not a black and white issue (i.e. you're either straight/gay/bi), on that I will agree, there are numerous differences and sliding scales involved that revolve around physical, social and sexual attraction that make sexuality such a complex enigma that differs from person to person. But that does not mean it is a choice or something that's interchangeable.
FIRSTLY YOU ARE NOT AN EXPERT SO DONT BOTHER PRETENDING TO BE ONE. TRYING TO TALK AS THOUGH ITS ALL FACT , ITS NOT. MUCH IS SUBJECTIVE. ALSO YOU INADVERTANTLY AGREE THAT NOT ALL GAY PEOPLE ARE BORN GAY JUST AS HETRO PEOPLE ARENT ALWAYS BORN HETRO. AND YES PEOPLE CAN CHANGE THEIR SEXUALITY TOO. THERE ARE 6 BILLION PEOPLE AND THEY DONT ALL CONFORM TO YOUR NARROW MINDED SET OF RULES
If you are attracted to men and marry a woman, that doesn't make you straight as you've tried to argue on here before. That means you've been brought up in an environment where you fear coming out. If you're a heterosexual woman and decide to have sex with a woman just 'to try it' because you live by the mantra of 'don't knock it until you've tried it', that means you're experimenting. This doesn't change your sexuality...in some cases those people experimenting may realise they actually quite enjoy it and that perhaps they were bisexual all along, but that doesn't mean they've just changed their sexuality, as if it's a tangible thing. That just means they hadn't discovered themselves before.
NO ONE SAID IT MADE YOU STRAIGHT. MAYBE HAVING SEX WITH A MAN DOESNT MAKE YOU GAY. WHO ARE YOU TO PIGEON HOLE ALL PEOPLE WITH YOUR LITTLE RULE BOOK. MAYBE THEY HAVE DISCOVERED THEMSELVES BEFORE AND ARE NOW RE-EXPERIMENTING. PEOPLE CAN CHANGE TO BECOME GAT OR HETROSEXUAL IN SOME CASES OR BI SEXUAL OR ASEXUAL. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO STOP THEM DOING SO
But for most experimentation is literally just that. If some straight man wasn't attracted to fat women but decided to sleep with one just to see what it's like, that's called experimentation. It's trying something you wouldn't normally do just to see what it's like. That doesn't change your sexuality, nor does it make it a choice. |
YOU MAY CALL THAT EXPERIMENTATION , OTHERS MAY NOT.
IT MAY BE A CHOICE IN SOME CASES BUT NOT IN OTHERS. YOURE TRING TO CONTROL THE WHOLE WORLD OF SEXUALITY WITH YOUR OWN SMALL RULE BOOK BUT YOU CANNOT. YOURE NOT BIG BROTHER SO I SUGGEST YOU BECOME MORE OPEN MINDED AND ALLOW PEOPLE TO DEVELOP AND CHANGE AND LIVE AS THEY LIKE WITHOUT YOU LABELLING AND PIGEON HOLING BILLIONS OF PEOPLE
PS BEFORE you moan about petty matters like caps lock, I did that merely to make it clearer between your words and mine
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