[Jords]

Caitlin youre far from ugly.

And I think being 'ugly' can be relatively controlled... if they keep fit (diet + exercise), dress well and keep clean + trim (shower regularly, hair styles, shave etc. etc.) then the overall person will improve their appearance.

Maybe facially theyre not that easy going, and although I consider that most important, all those other factors do play a role and are in our control so I wouldnt fear having an 'ugly' child. They are somewhat responsible for that

imo