[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

if you look at her VT she comes across as strong and can stand up for herself, she was evicted 6 times for a reason! emma even described jale as nightmare tenant. at the end of the day 1 launch describing the day 2 housemates. now she acting all different. as i said was evicted 6 times for a reason and was described as a nightmare tenant

So being a 'nightmare' tenant somehow makes it ok to belittle and target her? being evicted several times could be for any number of reasons,it doesn't necessarily mean she is confrontational.How much of that VT is bravado anyway,like most of them

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

So being a 'nightmare' tenant somehow makes it ok to belittle and target her? being evicted several times could be for any number of reasons,it doesn't necessarily mean she is confrontational.How much of that VT is bravado anyway,like most of them

no that doesn't make her a target because of being evicted 6 times. bullies go after the weak when jale is really a strong person even her sister said she is surpised she hasn't said anything. i was bullied because i looked weak but i sorted it out doing a mature thing and bullies has stopped bullying me

[kefln]

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

no that doesn't make her a target because of being evicted 6 times. bullies go after the weak when jale is really a strong person even her sister said she is surpised she hasn't said anything.

We have no idea why she was evicted, its not relevant in this situation.

Her sister has never seen her on national TV before...it effects people.

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

i was bullied because i looked weak but i sorted it out doing a mature thing and bullies has stopped bullying me

Sorry to hear that, but so was I, and so were a lot of people.

And the mature thing, is often the hardest thing. In this case, not sinking to Helens level.

Also most aren't bullied on national television, while isolated, with no where to go, knowing that their head is on the block every week, while their bully is safe as can be.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by kefln

We have no idea why she was evicted, its not relevant in this situation.

Her sister has never seen her on national TV before...it effects people.


Sorry to hear that, but so was I, and so were a lot of people.

And the mature thing, is often the hardest thing. In this case, not sinking to Helens level.

Also most aren't bullied on national television, while isolated, with no where to go, knowing that their head is on the block every week, while their bully is safe as can be.

standing up for yourself doesn't mean you have to be vile back, it can be anything but she seriously does need to speak to helen and pauline to show them she isn't a weak person who takes don't take rubbish in a mature way, pauline it might be difficult with because she never lets anyone speak but if Danielle can speak to Helen and Danielle was being a adult making up, im sure Jale should do the same see where it gets her. because its hard to watch, people say jale should keep it up and let them carry on but thats awful to watch, we don't need to watch bully brother , its big brother and jale needs to have a word,hopefully it will happen this week

[kefln]

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

standing up for yourself doesn't mean you have to be vile back, it can be anything but she seriously does need to speak to helen and pauline to show them she isn't a weak person who takes don't take rubbish in a mature way, pauline it might be difficult with because she never lets anyone speak but if Danielle can speak to Helen and Danielle was being a adult making up, im sure Jale should do the same see where it gets her. because its hard to watch, people say jale should keep it up and let them carry on but thats awful to watch, we don't need to watch bully brother , its big brother and jale needs to have a word,hopefully it will happen this week

Do you know the best way not to watch "bully brother"?

Its not to have bullies.

Again, you seem much more interested in Jale not reacting, than Helen's actions. If you don't like Bullies, and you don't want to watch Bullies, then don't look for reasons to make Helen look better.

And don't blame the victim of such bulling for not lashing out.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by kefln

Do you know the best way not to watch "bully brother"?

Its not to have bullies.

Again, you seem much more interested in Jale not reacting, than Helen's actions. If you don't like Bullies, and you don't want to watch Bullies, then don't look for reasons to make Helen look better.

And don't blame the victim of such bulling for not lashing out.

well big brother didn't know who would be bullies did they? i'm not looking for reasons to make Helen look better because that would be impossible because she isn't. even on the poll over 50 people voted yes she should do something and 9 said no. i'm glad jale has not walked out and jale isn't on my hate list. i'm just saying in life bullies only carry on when the victim there bullying on is weak and doesn't do anything to stop because they know they can do it all the time but when someone stands up for themself it can be in a mature way it stops. look at Danielle and Helen, helen was being vile by her comments and they had a word and is there any beef between them to no not anymore. jale needs to have a sit down with helen and discuss the situation. she needs to before it gets worst!

[kefln]

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

well big brother didn't know who would be bullies did they? i'm not looking for reasons to make Helen look better because that would be impossible because she isn't.

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

i feel she needs to step back and just ignore jale and never speak about her because its making Helen look bad.

Originally Posted by iiamlukee

even on the poll over 50 people voted yes she should do something and 9 said no. i'm glad jale has not walked out and jale isn't on my hate list. i'm just saying in life bullies only carry on when the victim there bullying on is weak and doesn't do anything to stop because they know they can do it all the time but when someone stands up for themself it can be in a mature way it stops. look at Danielle and Helen, helen was being vile by her comments and they had a word and is there any beef between them to no not anymore. jale needs to have a sit down with helen and discuss the situation. she needs to before it gets worst!

You mean that Helen isn't attacking Danielle at the moment...because she tends to have "pick on person of the day".

For all we know Jale is slowly working her way up to bursting point. Or maybe she honestly doesn't give a sh*t what the silly bint is saying.

All we really know is that Helen is a bully and a nasty piece of work. While Jale is a fairly mature and composed individual.

So why criticise the "nice" one?