[Verbal]

Originally Posted by Josy

You just judged me?

No I didn't I made a point.

Holding someones past against them or judging people from a distance in general is utterly ridiculous and is damaging to society and the individual.

[flamingGalah!]

Lots of people get down on their luck & have money problems, but they don't all lay on their backs with their legs in the air!

Ash should run for the hills...

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by flamingGalah!

Lots of people get down on their luck & have money problems, but they don't all lay on their backs with their legs in the air!

Ash should run for the hills...

I genuinely don't see why that is a bad thing, would you rather they burgled your house? Or would you rather they serviced some lonely old pervert in the comfort of their own home?

[flamingGalah!]

Originally Posted by Verbal

I genuinely don't see why that is a bad thing, would you rather they burgled your house? Or would you rather they serviced some lonely old pervert in the comfort of their own home?

Of course not, but to pretend that the only option for someone with money troubles is to become a prostitute is ridiculous! She had a child ffs, she would have been entitled to (& no doubt received) benefits etc.. anyway...

So I don't get all this pitty for her or that she was forced to be a prostitute or that it was her only option at all...

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Verbal

I genuinely don't see why that is a bad thing, would you rather they burgled your house? Or would you rather they serviced some lonely old pervert in the comfort of their own home?

Now you're judging people who use prostitutes,Calling them perverts.It could be the only sex they get.

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by EyeballPaul

Now you're judging people who use prostitutes,Calling them perverts.It could be the only sex they get.

I'm sorry you can't see how deliberate that was. I was stooping to the level that this topic has been taken too... deliberately.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Verbal

No I didn't I made a point.

Holding someones past against them or judging people from a distance in general is utterly ridiculous and is damaging to society and the individual.

And to make that point you judged my past? you mentioned my background.

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by Josy

And to make that point you judged my past? you mentioned my background.

Where did I judge you? I made an assumption that you are from a relatively privileged background. If I was judging you I would have made some derogatory comment.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Verbal

Where did I judge you? I made an assumption that you are from a relatively privileged background. If I was judging you I would have made some derogatory comment.

Not really, you can make a judgement without being derogatory.

Anyway to keep on topic I still think Ash should steer well clear, that opinion is based solely on Helen's behaviour and actions inside the house (I have said this all along so not sure why I'm all of a sudden being accused of slut shaming) she is not a nice person and would bring him down along with her IMO.

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by Josy

Not really, you can make a judgement without being derogatory.

Anyway to keep on topic I still think Ash should steer well clear, that opinion is based solely on Helen's behaviour and actions inside the house (I have said this all along so not sure why I'm all of a sudden being accused of slut shaming) she is not a nice person and would bring him down along with her IMO.

Please point out to me where I judged you. I voiced no opinion, I just stated what I believed to have been fact based on what you said. You were welcome to come back at me and say you aren't.

You stated that 500 quid is hardly a fortune, and I said to some it would be. End of discussion.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Verbal

Please point out to me where I judged you. I voiced no opinion, I just stated what I believed to have been fact based on what you said. You were welcome to come back at me and say you aren't.

You stated that 500 quid is hardly a fortune, and I said to some it would be. End of discussion.

I would rather the thread stayed on topic rather than be derailed with personal comments.

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by Josy

I would rather the thread stayed on topic rather than be derailed with personal comments.

it was you that derailed it! Now because your argument has been shot down its suddenly against the rules. Everything I have said is relevant to the topic that is being discussed.

[dyfed]

Originally Posted by Josy

Not really, you can make a judgement without being derogatory.

Anyway to keep on topic I still think Ash should steer well clear, that opinion is based solely on Helen's behaviour and actions inside the house (I have said this all along so not sure why I'm all of a sudden being accused of slut shaming) she is not a nice person and would bring him down along with her IMO.

Game set and match to Josie ,absolutely agree with you.