[dyfed]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

her dads a doctor and he is divorced from her mom,she left home early and their relationships is strained I believe

Why am I not surprised !! But would have thought she would have got a message from her son ,it's not like he's a baby..

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by dyfed

Why am I not surprised !! But would have thought she would have got a message from her son ,it's not like he's a baby..

He's 10, I actually wasn't even allowed to watch BB when I was 10,had he sent the letter, there would have been uproar likely that her son had been used to try to improve her image possibly.

The likely outrage at her 10 year old watching this programme so late each night and as to this series content particularly, would have begged the question who had she entrusted the care of her child to while being in the house.

[dyfed]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

He's 10, I actually wasn't even allowed to watch BB when I was 10,had he sent the letter, there would have been uproar likely that her son had been used to try to improve her image possibly.

The likely outrage at her 10 year old watching this programme so late each night and as to this series content particularly, would have begged the question who had she entrusted the care of her child to while being in the house.

He doesn't have to watch the show to tell his mum he loves her or miss her,if he can't write...draw a picture.

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by dyfed

He doesn't have to watch the show to tell his mum he loves her or miss her,if he can't write...draw a picture.

She already know's her son loves her just like he know's his mother loves him.

[joeysteele]

leUOTE=Ellen;7110148]She already know's her son loves her just like he know's his mother loves him.[/QUOTE]

Well said Ellen, when I was at Uni I often didn't hear from my parents for months sometimes, nor they from me obviously, we know how much we cared for each other.

Shocking in my view that all sorts of 'speculation' is being thrown about on a 10 year old boy, who is not even in the house or has had any connection to same other than his Mum is in it.

Also, another point that is being overlooked,what if he had written a letter to his Mother but someone else other than Winston got to decide who got their letters and then Helen wasn't chosen to get hers.
That young lads effort could have got discarded and how may he have been left to feel then that his Mum didn't get his letter.

We hear a little bit about looking out for Ashleigh for instance because she is only 18 but unnecessary and unpleasant speculation can be made as to a 10 year old boy,whose Mother just happens to be the main hate figure of this BB series.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by dyfed

He doesn't have to watch the show to tell his mum he loves her or miss her,if he can't write...draw a picture.

That is true and he was mentioned anyway by her friend,although I forget all what she said as to him, who obviously is the one looking after him while she is in the house.
Why should there have to be a full blown message from him and as you say he doesn't have to watch the show and maybe he shouldn't be anyway.

So what is the point of him being the one to have to send a message,I see none at all.
It is no big deal at all in my opinion.

IT doesn't matter if he can write or not, why should he not be able to write,you don't know the child.
Perhaps it is just as well he isn't watching this farce of a series, I for sure wouldn't want any of my children if I had any of that age watching this series for sure.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

He's 10, I actually wasn't even allowed to watch BB when I was 10,had he sent the letter, there would have been uproar likely that her son had been used to try to improve her image possibly.

The likely outrage at her 10 year old watching this programme so late each night and as to this series content particularly, would have begged the question who had she entrusted the care of her child to while being in the house.

He could have wrote a letter to his mom without having had to watch the show though, at the very least I would have thought that the friend might have passed on a message or some sort of an update on him for Helen?

[jet]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

He could have wrote a letter to his mom without having had to watch the show though, at the very least I would have thought that the friend might have passed on a message or some sort of an update on him for Helen?

Yes, very odd that the only thing the friend mentioned about her son that he was on a diet and would be glad to get cheeseburgers when his Mum got home. Made me think the friend was taking the opportunity to give him decent food instead of junk while Helen was away.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by jet

Yes, very odd that the only thing the friend mentioned about her son that he was on a diet and would be glad to get cheeseburgers when his Mum got home. Made me think the friend was taking the opportunity to give him decent food instead of junk while Helen was away.

Really jet,I have to part company with you here, we have no idea if this child has any problems, has an illness or whatever.
We all on here have no idea as to that at all and he is not in BB himself anyway, so for me should not be used as a tool to attack Helen with in the absence of any real knowledge as to him or what he is like too.

Clearly Helen has placed him with a very responsible person,her closest friend in fact while she is in the BB house.For me that speaks volumes in itself.

I find it really sad that to get at Helen it can be to use a tiny snippet of info on a 10 year old boy who likely loves his Mother and she him too.
At 10 years of age I would never have sent a message to anyone in BB nor would I have been even allowed to by my Parents.

I actually think that is right too,'in my opinion'.

[jet]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

Really jet,I have to part company with you here, we have no idea if this child has any problems, has an illness or whatever.
We all on here have no idea as to that at all and he is not in BB himself anyway, so for me should not be used as a tool to attack Helen with in the absence of any real knowledge as to him or what he is like too.

Clearly Helen has placed him with a very responsible person,her closest friend in fact while she is in the BB house.For me that speaks volumes in itself.

I find it really sad that to get at Helen it can be to use a tiny snippet of info on a 10 year old boy who likely loves his Mother and she him too.
At 10 years of age I would never have sent a message to anyone in BB nor would I have been even allowed to by my Parents.

I actually think that is right too,'in my opinion'.

The friend said it Joey, not me. She said he would be glad to get cheeseburgers when Helen got home.
Conclusion: Helen feeds him cheeseburgers, the friend doesn't, he'll be glad when Helen gets back and he can get cheeseburgers again. That is what I took out of it, you obviously take something different out of it but you didn't say what.

Anyway, this is a ridiculous conversation really, whether someone gives their kid cheeseburgers or not, just as criticizing a teenager for having an inch of roots in her hair or having spots is ridiculous.
I think we all need to get a little less petty about little things, myself included. It's like tit for tat, you see something petty about your fave, so you are petty about their fave in return. What are we all like?

[bots]

Originally Posted by jet

What are we all like?

A bunch of creepy, spotty, sex addict drama queens that like a good argument and point out the smallest faults in everything

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by jet

The friend said it Joey, not me. She said he would be glad to get cheeseburgers when Helen got home.
Conclusion: Helen feeds him cheeseburgers, the friend doesn't, he'll be glad when Helen gets back and he can get cheeseburgers again. That is what I took out of it, you obviously take something different out of it but you didn't say what.

Anyway, this is a ridiculous conversation really, whether someone gives their kid cheeseburgers or not, just as criticizing a teenager for having an inch of roots in her hair or having spots is ridiculous.
I think we all need to get a little less petty about little things, myself included. It's like tit for tat, you see something petty about your fave, so you are petty about their fave in return. What are we all like?

You are the only one really going on about it inferring Helen may be possibly a bad Mother as to watching what her child eats, with the fullest respect.

Helen is not my favourite at all, she is not even one of my top 4 of the 9 left, she and Ashleigh for instance are both near together with me at 5th and 6th respectively.
Little between them, 6 of one and half a dozen of the other for me,however I even wouldn't make comments as to Ashleigh's boyfriend for instance who was taking on bbbots last night.
Even if her letter had not come from him.
So I see no need at all,speaking for myself at any rate, to speculate at what or may not be going on as to Helen being a Mother and her relationship with her 10 year old son or how she is bringing him up too.

[Miranda123]

Originally Posted by jet

The friend said it Joey, not me. She said he would be glad to get cheeseburgers when Helen got home.
Conclusion: Helen feeds him cheeseburgers, the friend doesn't, he'll be glad when Helen gets back and he can get cheeseburgers again. That is what I took out of it, you obviously take something different out of it but you didn't say what.

Anyway, this is a ridiculous conversation really, whether someone gives their kid cheeseburgers or not, just as criticizing a teenager for having an inch of roots in her hair or having spots is ridiculous.
I think we all need to get a little less petty about little things, myself included. It's like tit for tat, you see something petty about your fave, so you are petty about their fave in return. What are we all like?

Totally agree. For myself I have resisted the urge to sign in after a bottle of wine in the evening or after Pimms in the park during the day

It's fun to have faves and hate others, but sometimes we all get a bit carried away, in my case, particularly after a few bevvys

I really like Helen and Ash but not confident they can win, I'd be really pleased if Ash gets to stay till the final along with her

As for Ashleigh, I don't really hate her, she was a bit misguided with her friend choices early on which prevented her from having fun but all my bitching isn't even about her, it's just bitching, and her bf sounds like a nice boy so good luck to them

I'm really okay with those left, though I'd hate Mark to win

God I hate an epiphany this early in the day!