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Originally Posted by Fish_Fingers

Very good analysis, and I agree 100%.

One other thing I'd add to the discussion is that she seriously needs to try and understand what the phrase, "slagging me/you/us off," actually means. Just because people she doesn't like talk about her, and even point out her flaws, it doesn't always equate to slagging her off. But what she tends to do is hear people discussing her, not actually listening to what they are saying, and then proclaim, "They're slagging me off!!"

I've said it before and I'll say it her again, her "journey" will begin when she leaves the house and sees how her behaviour is perceived by others. Then if she starts taking steps to fix her broken personality, that will be the start of her real journey.

The difference in how she reacted to Ashleigh saying she was the most difficult to live with and how Chris reacted to Pav naming him was very telling. You could see how Chris was really listening to what Pav was saying and taking it on board, not getting angry