[jessicadanielle]

Originally Posted by jet

fgs, I like Gary way more than James, but put it like this:

If someone kept rudely butting into your conversation by shouting 'hey, hey, hey' and you had asked them to stop doing it countless times because it bugs you, wouldn't you get exasperated and annoyed? It's not a case of justifying anything, it's a case of not always blaming everything on one person and turning a blind eye to any fault in the other person.
Gary shouldn't be exempt from any blame because he's Gary. It's so patronizing.

I wonder too why it didn't show Gary butting in, just James reacting?

I've had a conversation with you before about the fact that I acknowledge that Gary isn't faultless. Nothing in my comment above suggested that Gary is exempt from any blame, so why are you assuming so? Dunno why you felt like you had to "fgs" me when I never claimed Gary is blameless here or ever before.

Gary might have been rude, but for James to have a go at someone for being rude in such a rude and offensive (name calling like the babysitter stuff) manner is just laughable, hypocritical and ******s me right off. Is it not?! This is the point I was making.

[jet]

Originally Posted by jessicadanielle

I've had a conversation with you before about the fact that I acknowledge that Gary isn't faultless. Nothing in my comment above suggested that Gary is exempt from any blame, so why are you assuming so? Dunno why you felt like you had to "fgs" me when I never claimed Gary is blameless here or ever before.

Gary might have been rude, but for James to have a go at someone for being rude in such a rude and offensive (name calling like the babysitter stuff) manner is just laughable, hypocritical and ******s me right off. Is it not?! This is the point I was making.

Because in your post you pointed out all that James had done wrong and mentioned nothing that might have prompted his exasperation. It bothers me that people always leave out what Gary does and only focus on what James does and I'm afraid you got the brunt of my annoyance, so I apologize for that, as you are by no means the most guilty of doing that. Sorry!

[jessicadanielle]

Originally Posted by jet

Because in your post you pointed out all that James had done wrong and mentioned nothing that might have prompted his exasperation. It bothers me that people always leave out what Gary does and only focus on what James does and I'm afraid you got the brunt of my annoyance, so I apologize for that, as you are by no means the most guilty of doing that. Sorry!

No worries it annoys me too when it seems like people pick a favourite and turn everything to be in favour of them, or pick a least favourite and only focus on their bad points. I didn't mean to do that above.

[abhorson]

Originally Posted by jessicadanielle

I've had a conversation with you before about the fact that I acknowledge that Gary isn't faultless. Nothing in my comment above suggested that Gary is exempt from any blame, so why are you assuming so? Dunno why you felt like you had to "fgs" me when I never claimed Gary is blameless here or ever before.

Gary might have been rude, but for James to have a go at someone for being rude in such a rude and offensive (name calling like the babysitter stuff) manner is just laughable, hypocritical and ******s me right off. Is it not?! This is the point I was making.

I so agree.