[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Urwreatha

thanks again to those who see the real issue here.

if you guys think that this is about me being upset about my car insurance not being paid... I think you need to read through my original post again.

I do not give one flying **** that I have to pay my car insurance. I am more than able to.

When I say I have no money, I mean that of course, money is tight. As it is with many people...

But I also have a mother who doesn't work and my dad who is meant to pay for the bills of the house and the mortgage etc... but he doesn't.

I know he's struggling. It's sad, and I really dont want that. But when my parents have been to court numerous times over how their money from the past 22 years should have been split, he should pay the agreed amount.

But he doesn't. He spends it on stupid stuff, like I already mentioned

this woman bought her 3 cats ****ing stockings with his money.

at first she was like 'nooooo, we can't, you have no money!!!!' but then she went on to be all huffy about it, until he bought them.

and to the people doubting this woman is nasty, even though it's obvious from what I've already said, she's been married 3 times already, and I've had people who have been involved with her message me on FB and wish me luck, lol.

So yeah, I know I can't do nothing about it. And yeah, perhaps she's just a lovely woman who I haven't given a chance... But I've not seen that side of her yet.

Last year when we went back to the states, she lied about me and my dad took my aside and said I was being awful, when I wasn't. I was so heartbroken that he believed her, that I had my first ever panic attack.

So please, when you say you don't know 'the other side of the story' or that 'maybe shes nice', just stop. You have absolutely no idea what you're talking about.

/rantover

Caitlin love - In my opinion - it was evident from your first post that you weren't at fault here, and that your dad's GF was, so you don't need to explain any more than you have already, and from what you have said already, my sympathy is with you and your sister.

I hope the problem gets resolved quickly, but I wouldn't blame yourself in any way if it doesn't.