[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

because the way he acts is an ott queeny whiney mess. how many 'straight' men act that way? he's just an annoying super flamboyant gay guy, which is what most gay guys are portrayed to be like irl, when they arent. What Michelle was saying was that she hates the fact that she's tried to prove that gay people are just like everyone else, and then Perez has to go and be some annoying, little **** and influence some people into thinking that gay men are like that.

By some, I mean people who aren't used to having sane gay people in their lives. If someone doesn't have a gay person in their lives and maybe hasn't even met a gay person, then of course they will think that they are like what they see on TV. It's sad, but it's true.

Caitlin you know I'm not a massive fan of people like this usually as I find it overbearing, but I'm not going to go out of my way to actually hate people like this despite what I joke about. The fact is there are people like this in the "community", so? It's who they are. Why should they feel bad for it, and why should we make them? That is oppressive and is not what LGBT is actually about, it's about everyone who falls into that group, regardless of their personality.