[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I've not said anything of the sort.

I'm questioning why the rights of the father is being brought up when there are just as many cases of the father abandoning the family.

As I was originally saying a "change in the family unit" can happen a dozen different ways.

No you didn't sorry, and of course you're right there's just as many go awol as want to be involved.
She is obviously very affected by abandonment/loss and her family failed due to being her enablers. There's no one thing that's to blame.