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Originally Posted by just thinkin

I think this was all taken out of proportion by the guys - first of all she has a small dependent - that must be her main concert - I would totally agree with her. There comes a stage in someones life where playtime is over and messing around is over especially when there is a small child depending on her - she's just growing up and looking out for herself and her child - of course she wants a stable environment for her and her child with a man who can support her - who wouldn't. It's called growing up and taking responsibility and putting your child first. Of course the guys (who never really grow up) don't understand that - they usually are the ones with a get out clause when it comes to kids and failed relationships - girls are the ones left struggling. don't find anything wrong with what she said at all. the young boys just probably don't understand yet.

I totally disagree. She's female, not disabled.
As a man myself I don't feel like I'm "gifted" with supernatural forces making me unstoppable - I work, I do my best and I earn what I deserve, I don't look for excuses if I fail (aka age and gender).
Having a bit of common sense, it's all what it takes.