[Ammi]

Originally Posted by LukeB

The bully card gets thrown around too much, marc is deffo not a bully. It's just banter. May be a bellend but he's a great guy deep down. Helen from last year was a bully and matc isn't doing what that cretin did tbh

..hmmmm. it's a tricky one because I wouldn't say bully either but someone who likes to feel his dominance over others, whether they be male or female, he just does it in different way with different people...he had that with Sam already in that she was his adoring puppy but then she also conflicted that with saying that she hated him and that e was an idiot etc...so then to insult her the way he did and say that it would turn him on to see her cry ..?....hmmmm, definitely someone who feels the need to dominate and have all others 'subservient'...

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..hmmmm. it's a tricky one because I wouldn't say bully either but someone who likes to feel his dominance over others, whether they be male or female, he just does it in different way with different people...he had that with Sam already in that she was his adoring puppy but then she also conflicted that with saying that she hated him and that e was an idiot etc...so then to insult her the way he did and say that it would turn him on to see her cry ..?....hmmmm, definitely someone who feels the need to dominate and have all others 'subservient'...

Maybe he shouldn't have said that and he got warned for it but i think he is a misunderstood guy. I think he does this at home tbh and it's a habit or trying to avoid home sickness. The sam/marc is deffo a love hate relationship. But mard deffo doesn't say things to be a nasty person imo

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Maybe he shouldn't have said that and he got warned for it but i think he is a misunderstood guy. I think he does this at home tbh and it's a habit or trying to avoid home sickness. The sam/marc is deffo a love hate relationship. But mard deffo doesn't say things to be a nasty person imo

..it's not the words though, that speak his 'dominance' and the need to have it..maybe he shouldn't have said it, it wasn't the smartest thing..?..but imo it's that he thought it/that he felt it whether saying it or not...

[Beetlejuice]

My own view on bullying is not that the word gets thrown around too much but that people get too hysterical over it. Some forms are mild and tend to be little more than a guy trying to assert his authority or superiority over others. That is what Marc is all about. But people like that can soon get vicious when they don't get what they want.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Beetlejuice

My own view on bullying is not that the word gets thrown around too much but that people get too hysterical over it. Some forms are mild and tend to be little more than a guy trying to assert his authority or superiority over others. That is what Marc is all about. But people like that can soon get vicious when they don't get what they want.

...yep, insult, insult, insult and offend, offend, offend until you see the reaction you want and then 'make up' because you didn't mean it of course...