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Kazanne · 28-09-2015, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Ashley.

If someone cheated on me I wouldn't cry about it. They clearly wouldn't love me if they'd cheat on me so they wouldn't be worth my tears. And I probably would laugh in their face.

That's easy to say,until you are actually in that position,you cant turn love on or off in a minute,IF you love someone it hurts,really hurts,and that is why so many people try and make a go of it again,so I don't agree Ashley,REAL love hurts when you lose it.

Ammi · 28-09-2015, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

That's easy to say,until you are actually in that position,you cant turn love on or off in a minute,IF you love someone it hurts,really hurts,and that is why so many people try and make a go of it again,so I don't agree Ashley,REAL love hurts when you lose it.

...I agree Kaz ..cheating devastates families and also if there are children involved and the parents separate, it's extremely damaging to them as well..

Ammi · 28-09-2015, 02:41 PM

..I don't see in the article where he lie detected her..?..

Niamh. · 28-09-2015, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't see in the article where he lie detected her..?..

he didn't

Ammi · 28-09-2015, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

he didn't

..oh I misread the title..

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kirklancaster · 28-09-2015, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

he didn't

No he didn't Niamh. I meant SHOULD he have lie detected her Ammi, so he might have known something was wrong and had a chance to perhaps save his marriage.

Kazanne · 28-09-2015, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

...I agree Kaz ..cheating devastates families and also if there are children involved and the parents separate, it's extremely damaging to them as well..

Yes,Ammi,I should have added about the children,it can mess some lives up forever.

Ammi · 28-09-2015, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

Yes,Ammi,I should have added about the children,it can mess some lives up forever.

..yeah, (I think that you work in a school as well..)..and I'm sure see the damage on children of parents separating, especially if one is in a new relationship straight away and that's something that makes it all not black or white either...

Kazanne · 28-09-2015, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..yeah, (I think that you work in a school as well..)..and I'm sure see the damage on children of parents separating, especially if one is in a new relationship straight away and that's something that makes it all not black or white either...

I do Ammi and some of those kids are damaged sadly beyond total repair sometimes.I have a one to one with a little girl called Faye,who parents divorced and she and her sister ended up adopted,I adore her ,but she is a very troubled little soul,although her adoptive parents are lovely,so hopefully in time some can recover.

Niamh. · 28-09-2015, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

That's easy to say,until you are actually in that position,you cant turn love on or off in a minute,IF you love someone it hurts,really hurts,and that is why so many people try and make a go of it again,so I don't agree Ashley,REAL love hurts when you lose it.

#TeamAniston

Kazanne · 28-09-2015, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

#TeamAniston

I see what you did there,but I still prefer the Jolie,as did Brad

Niamh. · 28-09-2015, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

I see what you did there,but I still prefer the Jolie,as did Brad

That's mean though, why is it ok to joke about her but not ok to joke about Jeremy Kyle? Do you think she's less human because you like Angelina Jolie more?

Kazanne · 28-09-2015, 03:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

That's mean though, why is it ok to joke about her but not ok to joke about Jeremy Kyle? Do you think she's less human because you like Angelina Jolie more?

I don't mind joking about Jeremy Kyle Niamh, I just know it's not nice to go through stuff like that especially when your in the public eye,as for Brangelina,no kids were involved ,Brad obviously wasn't happy ,didn't he want kids and she didn't? JKs wife wasn't happy either ,so they split .doesn't mean it's an easy thing to go through, and given JKs job,more will be made of it,imo.

Niamh. · 28-09-2015, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

I don't mind joking about Jeremy Kyle Niamh, I just know it's not nice to go through stuff like that especially when your in the public eye,as for Brangelina,no kids were involved ,Brad obviously wasn't happy ,didn't he want kids and she didn't? JKs wife wasn't happy either ,so they split .doesn't mean it's an easy thing to go through, and given JKs job,more will be made of it,imo.

Making excuses for Brad cheating on his wife? Not nice

Doesn't matter if no kids were involved, it's still an horrendous thing to go through for anyone

ETA : that rumour about her not wanting kids is apparently un true

Kazanne · 28-09-2015, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

Making excuses for Brad cheating on his wife? Not nice

Doesn't matter if no kids were involved, it's still an horrendous thing to go through for anyone

ETA : that rumour about her not wanting kids is apparently un true

So what would you suggest Niamh? Brad staying with someone he doesn't love and of course it's horrendous for anyone,no one knows what goes on behind closed doors,same as the JK split,someone wasn't happy,that is why I said we wouldn't feel so lighthearted about it if it was one of us. we do joke about other people as we are not feeling that hurt at the time, rumours fly about all the time,I suppose it depends on what we choose to believe.

Ashley. · 28-09-2015, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

That's easy to say,until you are actually in that position,you cant turn love on or off in a minute,IF you love someone it hurts,really hurts,and that is why so many people try and make a go of it again,so I don't agree Ashley,REAL love hurts when you lose it.

Love, to me, is a two-way thing. I think that if there's only one person doing the chasing, then it's not love at all, it's lust.