[AnnieK]

I'm not afraid of death, but I am a little afraid of what leads up to it. My mum died after a short illness and whilst that gave us chance to say things to her that we wanted too, it was awful to watch a once vibrant intelligent person growing weaker and weaker so quickly. I think I would prefer it to be quick and sudden,.....which is why it's so important to me to make sure everyone I love knows it, not to fall out and to just enjoy life