[Liam-]

I don't know why you are telling me to get a grip.. this is a serious debate

Because you're trying to say I said something homophobic when I blatantly didn't.

Using the word 'normal' in contrast to what you perceived as a gay stereotype suggests that, being gay is opposite to what is normal. You're not a homophobe, but your comment certainly inferred a homophobic theme. I'm just letting you know.

Did you not notice where I said 'for lack of a better word'? I didn't infer being gay wasn't normal, I didn't infer that being gay was wrong, I didn't infer any sort of homophobia at all, take your faux offense at whatever you can find and stop trying to cause something out of nothing.