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Originally Posted by Ammi

..if it had been the other way round and he had been the one with the partner..?...it would still maybe have been Steph's fault because 'home-wrecker'/guy stealer/evil woman etc..../always the female, when two people are at fault...

There's always been double standards where male/female relationships have been involved, and for some reason the woman always comes off the slut and the man a hero, but i do think in this case if big brother is to be viewed as a social experiment (insert laughter here!) then Steph should be allowed to play out her role as cheater and deal with the consequences when she leaves, after all isn't what she doing classed as normal behaviour in an intense situation (thousands upon thousands of people cheat everyday on their loved ones), it doesn't make it right, maybe the conflict she has shown is genuine, some people do say they love 2 people at once, but Gemma does my head in constantly meddling, even trying to orchestrate love still lets her have a part in that relationship, she should sort herself out and stop trying to have a part in everyone elses storyline, but then if she didn't have a part in everyone elses storyline what would her story line be????