[Cherie]

Originally Posted by MTVN

Sure sign her up

trust you

[Ross.]

Originally Posted by MTVN

Sure sign her up

omg

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Mokka

Oh... I know she has...

but then again... have you seen the chat thread this week

You'll probably be more shocked at her joining in

Just tell her what happens in the Mokka house stays in the Mokka house, as i'd be afraid of my daughter telling my embarrassing secrets

[Ammi]

..what is it that you're not sure about Mokka, what are your apprehensions about it..?..

[Ross.]

If you feel comfortable with it then let her, keep her away from Marsh and she will be fine

[T*]

Originally Posted by MTVN

Sure sign her up

Omfg

[T*]

Originally Posted by Ross.

If you feel comfortable with it then let her, keep her away from Marsh and she will be fine

.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by MTVN

Sure sign her up

I lost it

[Denver]

Only you will really know the answer though but it could be great for her to get to know people from all over the world and learn new stuff.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Mokka

So... Mokkadaughter wants in...

After her vocal debut in TiBB Eurovision ... she periodically asks me to be able to join. She turns 15 during BB Can ... and she watched CBB with me this January... and she wants to BFF Tom... and she ant to enter TiBB Eurovision this spring

Soooooo... am I a good or bad parent if I let her join

Honestly... I waiver on letting her... and can not make up my mind .... I need help

well i would say let her join TiBB,

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..what is it that you're not sure about Mokka, what are your apprehensions about it..?..

well, without starting something ... I have had numerous personal attacks on and off line in the last year on here... even and upto last night... and It has made me want to walk away from the site several times...

But... that being said... I really love the communication and dialogue I do have with a number of members... and that is what keeps me here... plus I am an adult so water off a ducks back and all that

but... she isn't an adult... so I feel like letting her be subject to the kind of ridicule I get would be negligent on my part.

the dirty words and sex talk ... she probably gets all of that at her GSA club at shcool

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Mokka

well, without starting something ... I have had numerous personal attacks on and off line in the last year on here... even and upto last night... and It has made me want to walk away from the site several times...

But... that being said... I really love the communication and dialogue I do have with a number of members... and that is what keeps me here... plus I am an adult so water off a ducks back and all that

but... she isn't an adult... so I feel like letting her be subject to the kind of ridicule I get would be negligent on my part.

the dirty words and sex talk ... she probably gets all of that at her GSA club at shcool

If there is a case where you feel she is being bullied on/off site let the mods know the user and they will probably sort it

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Tom*

I've heard worse in school than on here tbh (except for maybe marsh), it should be fine!

I am so not the worst around here. I'm barely on anymore.

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by Adam.

If there is a case where you feel she is being bullied on/off site let the mids know the user and they will probably sort it

.... lovely theory

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I am so not the worst around here. I'm barely on anymore.

Marsh.... you aren't even on my radar of concerns

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Ross.

If you feel comfortable with it then let her, keep her away from Marsh and she will be fine

Omg at the victimisation today.

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I am so not the worst around here. I'm barely on anymore.

Yeah but when you are online you make me look like a sheltered virgin

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Mokka

Marsh.... you aren't even on my radar of concerns

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

Yeah but when you are online you make me look like a sheltered virgin

Come on now that's impossible.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Mokka

.... lovely theory

Well I don't know how we're expected to sort out stuff that happens offsite tbf :/

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well I don't know how we're expected to sort out stuff that happens offsite tbf :/

I never said you were... the theory is not implementable

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Well I don't know how we're expected to sort out stuff that happens offsite tbf :/

Not even when its a Member going out of their way to attack another member?

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Mokka

well, without starting something ... I have had numerous personal attacks on and off line in the last year on here... even and upto last night... and It has made me want to walk away from the site several times...

But... that being said... I really love the communication and dialogue I do have with a number of members... and that is what keeps me here... plus I am an adult so water off a ducks back and all that

but... she isn't an adult... so I feel like letting her be subject to the kind of ridicule I get would be negligent on my part.

the dirty words and sex talk ... she probably gets all of that at her GSA club at shcool

...well, I do think that's probably something for you to take into serious consideration as well and as you say, without re-hashing over years, it's something that not many members have escaped without scars, so that would be awful for her, not only for herself but things said to you as well...and again, as I think most of us know...a few members have had information searched and their real lives invaded, even Admin..so no one could ever give an absolute guarantee of anything done off the forum either, but linked to the forum and her being a member...

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Not even when its a Member going out of their way to attack another member?

We deal with things differently depending on each thing that happens.

What we can't do and no one can is deal with things we haven't ever been made aware of

[Jessica.]

Can my cat join? She's basically an adult in car years, she wouldn't cause trouble.