[power2thepeople]

Originally Posted by Withano

Id probably cry too if i swapped my gf for some cheap skank and an extra fortnight in the bb house.

RUTHLESS.....but bang on point.

[fitz2k2]

Originally Posted by power2thepeople

Agreed. I wouldn't give him the time of day. Isn't this the same girl dumped by Gaz from GS to get back with Charlotte Crosby? If so, she needs to give her head a wobble on bf choices. As for his tears, I'm sure there was emotions involved. I saw panic in those eyes. She's a reminder that behaving like a twat for the BB game is a small dose of how he treats people in the real world and the public will see it. I'm sure he will twist it to remorse and regret for the sympathy vote. He will get it but not from me. But nice to know deep down he's a snivelling ****bag.

Damnnnnnnn that is the girl that Gaz dated and dump for Charlotte. I remember watching that episode.As soon as Gaz found out Charlotte was single.He drove back home to break up with his girl.Just to be with charlotte ,but then this fake little Justin beiber kids makeout with gaz girl on Geordie shore hahaha.Anyway back to cbb. So now Lillie has been dump 2x on national tv?my gosh! Tomorrow episode will be interesting.

[Ammi]

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

He does feel bad and knows he's done wrong. He's still young and we all make mistakes. God knows I've made plenty at his age.

[Jake.]

he's a pig so idc

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He does feel bad and knows he's done wrong. He's still young and we all make mistakes. God knows I've made plenty at his age.

..I'd like to think that on some level that he has thought of how his actions and behaviour have hurt others so much in all of this Vanessa and given some thought beyond himself and his own amusement but I fear not sadly...and the enabling that he's getting through his 'entertainment' won't help either...he may win the show and probably will because he would be pretty poor not to have had a show devoted to him and can't even come out on top, there but as a human being, he's a loser in every way for me...

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jake.

he's a pig so idc

...or what Jake said, really...

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by Samm

It's all for votes, he's been on RTV shows before he knows what to do

I agree.They are both used to acting a part in reality crap, so tears from numpty bear mean jack s.... IF Lily was genuine AND a self respecting woman, after seeing her 'boyfriend' slobbering all over something like Chloe, she would have said END OF. No explanations needed or wanted.
As she has presumably been paid for the OK interview and her appearance on CBB, one would assume that she is just as much of a fame w...e as bear,lewis and marnie.

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He didn't react like I expected him to. But it's nice
To see some emotion from him. Usually he's very guarded.

For 'guarded', read: Psychotic: Glibness/superficial charm
shallow emotional response
poor behavioural controls
callous/lack of empathy

[Vanessa]

It's nice to see some genuine emotion from him. As he's usually very guarded.

[hot2go]

Both victims of their own making because of the industry they CHOOSE to be in ....I don't know weather shes worked on reality TV before but she does now so that's where I stop regarding her in the same way as a normal girl. Both her and Bear are prepared to sell their private lives for money and fame, which if fine and no different to everyone else in the house but she longer can be taken seriously IMO..... Normal people and heart broken people don't share their pain with strangers on a game show in front of millions of people.

[hot2go]

More Ex on the Make than Ex on the Beach

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by hot2go

Both victims of their own making because of the industry they CHOOSE to be in ....I don't know weather shes worked on reality TV before but she does now so that's where I stop regarding her in the same way as a normal girl. Both her and Bear are prepared to sell their private lives for money and fame, which if fine and no different to everyone else in the house but she longer can be taken seriously IMO..... Normal people and heart broken people don't share their pain with strangers on a game show in front of millions of people.

..maybe it's appropriate to do so when you've seen the trust that you have in someone, betrayed on a gameshow so publicly as well...however it's spun, he betrayed her with complete disregard and then publicly 'dumped' her/and is a shabby human being for doing so, so her reactions as the victim can't really be criticised beyond that...and her reactions from the small amount we saw anyone were just of extreme hurt...

[Josy]

I wasn't even aware he had a gf when he entered the house, where have I been lol

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Josy

I wasn't even aware he had a gf when he entered the house, where have I been lol

...probably in a much better place than CBB......oh Lord, why do we do it/put ourselves through this type of silliness and basically rubbish...we must hate ourselves......

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He does feel bad and knows he's done wrong. He's still young and we all make mistakes. God knows I've made plenty at his age.

He's in his mid twenties, not a teenager, cheating isn't a mistake, it's a conscious decision he took and he broke a girls heart in the process, there's really no defending that.

[sampvt]

I can't believe anyone's buying that bad acting. It's a fuss for votes and to promote the new x on the beach series. This is becoming a scripted load of ****e

[Kazanne]

It was fake,as fake as him,the only person he has feelings for is himself.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

It's nice to see some genuine emotion from him. As he's usually very guarded.

Vanessa ,he's a total fraud,I hope you never meet anyone like him.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Vanessa ,he's a total fraud,I hope you never meet anyone like him.

I like him, he makes me laugh

[Clootie Dumpling]

A cynical attempt by BB producers to demonstrate what a rounded character Bear is by manufacturing opportunities for him to reveal what a staggering range of emotions he has, etc. ...

[jet]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

I stopped tuning in quite a while back and have only been watching on eviction nights, and even then just the eviction bit/last 15 mins or so, but get the gist of things by having a browse in here now and then...and I sometimes watch a bit of live feed. But I couldn't put myself through nearly an hour of that BS every night if they paid me to do it.
I just want to say how much your words prove that there are people who recognise how awful Bear is and how awful this show is because of him Ammi.
It's hard to see how so many people have fallen for his form of'entertainment' and are revelling in it.

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..maybe it's appropriate to do so when you've seen the trust that you have in someone, betrayed on a gameshow so publicly as well...however it's spun, he betrayed her with complete disregard and then publicly 'dumped' her/and is a shabby human being for doing so, so her reactions as the victim can't really be criticised beyond that...and her reactions from the small amount we saw anyone were just of extreme hurt...

I don't agree ....it's never appropriate to air your personal life and personal pain on television unless you are just after fame or money and then it's deemed acceptable cause it comes with the territory...if she had integrity she would either walk away or deal with him and her pain in private when he leaves. She shouldn't be in there.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I'd like to think that on some level that he has thought of how his actions and behaviour have hurt others so much in all of this Vanessa and given some thought beyond himself and his own amusement but I fear not sadly...and the enabling that he's getting through his 'entertainment' won't help either...he may win the show and probably will because he would be pretty poor not to have had a show devoted to him and can't even come out on top, there but as a human being, he's a loser in every way for me...

Exactly what I've been thinking.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Vanessa ,he's a total fraud,I hope you never meet anyone like him.

Indeed.