[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Maru

Never appropriate for teachers in my opinion. Even if it's morally acceptable, it's not ethical. She put herself in a compromising situation though without hard details it's difficult to judge. Maybe there was other company that made it OK for her to drink so much around the kids. I mean she did admit to four glasses.

It sounds like she had a lot to lose (status-wise) so I have to wonder why in the world anyone would put themselves in that situation with such a reputation to protect. They're a lot harder on females here I noticed on the local news. We've had several in the past year and a few trials going. So yeah, that can't be fun dealing with the media. Men it's just an accepted fact they wants to bag themselves some young females... here's a mug shot... never covered again...

I had a friend who I was best friends with in middle school who slept with a teacher from her high school (I think just after graduation) and he was from Russia which I think he said made it more acceptable. He would hit on her while she was in school and it was very mutual. She would very likely proudly admit she is possibly a clinical nymphomaniac... I'm surprised she didn't get into more trouble than she did because she definitely liked older men and they were the primary target for her affection. Not really sure if there was a history that caused her to be like that, but 50% of her conversations are about penis so... that was over 15 years ago and she hasn't changed, but in her case I would've never doubted that it was consensual... though she would brag her dad would be arrested for murdering the men if he ever found out they did anything untoward with her. They were a devout Catholic family as well. If only he knew.

..I recall back in the day at school, a 16yr old student became pregnant and the father was one of the teachers...a 27/28yr old if I recall correctly...he carried on teaching and teaching at the school...but it was actually quite hard to feel the same sense of 'safety' there..from a pupil's perspective..?...and I know that many/most young people felt the same as well because obviously, it was all the subject of huge discussions etc...I can't imagine in that scenario now, it ever being that he would have still carried on teaching at the school.../that's why policies are in place now, which wouldn't have been then..and indeed in the workplace as well....some very dodgy bosses and superiors and huge abuses of positions....