[TomC]

Originally Posted by y.winter

What do YOU feel? Do you really like him or is it just getting carried away with the fantasy that attracts you?
When you cancelled first it was not because you didn't want to meet him, so it might as well be the same case with his cancellation. you don't know. It doesn't say much.
If you want it and he didn't disapprove so far, give yourself a chance. Yes, you can lose your "dignity" (harsh phrasing, I would say) but you can lose a potentially great companion.

If you ask me - hell with the rules, do your thing and let things happen or not.

I mean yeah, I'd say considering we haven't even met yet that it's very driven by fantasy And also just the intense desire to be in a relationship atm, and he's just someone my imagination latched onto.

Actually, when he cancelled I was going over to his and he supposedly fell asleep lol.

My initial feeling was to try one last time in a few days to initiate meeting for coffee or something, the same time we were meant to last week (even though my friends advised against this ), and if he doesn't respond well to that/sounds disinterested, then it really is time to give it up right?