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Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

But what "Man" would open the door, see his wife arguing with a big strapping man ,and shut the door again and stand up to the wall ? I would divorce my hubby if he didn't defend me

A man who doesn't believe women are a vulnerable, weak species that must be defended at all costs? A man who believes that his wife can stand up for herself rather than being so patronising as to think he needs to intervene in an argument that isn't his?

Granted there are exceptions to the rule but Heidi isn't one of them. I'm sure she's perfectly capable of holding her own in an argument