[Withano]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

I find your comments irresponsible. Do you understand the difference between a poor body image/mild depression and clinical depression. Advising a woman who was clinically depressed to have a boob job as the answer to her problems would be gross misconduct if you were a medical professional - it would be like putting a sticking plaster on a shot gun wound.

Someone with clinical depression needs expert psychological help whereas someone thinking big boobs will get them more male attention or more work can damn well pay for them themselves or maybe get some sucker to pay for them for them.

The Hugh increase in women getting boob jobs these days is not about clinical depression it's about attention. Boob jobs, Botox and the resulting trout pouts and liposuction are all a quick fix for vain women too lazy to work hard at improving their appearance in safer, more natural ways.

Surgery has become almost as common today as wearing make-up. If women want it it they pay for it and I think you would find that by far the majority of people would agree with that. NHS treatment is not there to finance women's insecurities and vanity.

If they are clinically depressed, they have likely gone through therapeutic treatment, if the NHS are suggesting surgery, it was probably unsuccessful. Christ, it must be so easy for you with naturally proportionate boobs, throwing insults at those that dont, and then throw about suggestions on how they should live heir life after making them feel less about themselves in the first place.

You are literally being the problem and fighting against a solution at the same time. Awful. Claiming that clinically depressed women want attention, after bodyshamers (like you) have made them be this way is just awful.

If i gave you the impression that I'm against therapy, I'm not by the way. But it isnt an end-all solution, it is regularly unsuccessful, and rarely free, the sufferers would likely pay to be there, unless they are part of psychological research. If sufferers come out of therapy still depressed and if the sufferer and the NHS believe that surgery will stop, or mimimise that (obviously they both do, or this discussion wouldnt exist) then i am all for that. Why you want these sufferers to remain depressed indefinitely is beyond me.