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06-04-2017, 09:26 PM | #26 | |||
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06-04-2017, 09:58 PM | #27 | ||
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06-04-2017, 10:12 PM | #28 | |||
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If I loved somebody, I'd be fine with sharing everything I have with them, if I believe that they loved me, I'd be fine with them having that.
It sounds to me that you either don't love her, or dont trust her to love you. So in summary, you just are moving too fast.
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06-04-2017, 10:12 PM | #29 | |||
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Tell her it's the modern way and as a dynamic couple a pre up is essential in case you end up like Brangelina.
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06-04-2017, 10:13 PM | #30 | ||
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my apologies this isnt a pre nup this is a contract to share the house we buy
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06-04-2017, 10:14 PM | #31 | ||
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07-04-2017, 01:13 AM | #32 | ||
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07-04-2017, 01:38 AM | #33 | |||
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07-04-2017, 04:36 AM | #34 | ||
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Say that you have been burned in the past and that is why you want a pre-nup. If they refuse don't marry them!! You say it makes it sound as if you don't trust them, but you don't do you? Rightle so I might add. People can be devious and when the chips are down they can be downright malicious. So if you have any assets worth protecting, then do so.
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07-04-2017, 04:40 AM | #35 | ||
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I have to ask Truth...WHY ARE YOU MARRYING HER? It certainly doesn't sound like a match made in heaven from this end anyway. If it's the same woman who ripped you off before, donm't marry her, don't buy a house with her and never leave your valuables laying around. Good Luck, because it sounds as though you are going to need it.
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07-04-2017, 04:43 AM | #36 | ||
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07-04-2017, 05:17 AM | #37 | ||
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07-04-2017, 12:43 PM | #38 | ||
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So... you just by complete coincidence, happened to meet and get involved with a woman who matches 100% of the bizarre and unrealistic preconceptions you have about women in general? There are only two realistic explanations here. Either you specifically sought out a woman like this in an extraordinary act of confirmation bias / self harm... OR you have invented a caricature of a woman based on your skewed perception of females.
I strongly suspect it's the latter. If it's the former, my advice is... stop allowing yourself to be abused and find a partner who loves you and who you love. |
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07-04-2017, 03:14 PM | #39 | ||
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as for everyone else, thanks for your constructive replies, tricky situation not sure what to do next tbh...blinking gorgous girl with some redeeming qualities despite the obvious drawbacks |
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07-04-2017, 04:32 PM | #40 | |||
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Just say if you want to spend all my money over our lifetime then sign this.
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09-04-2017, 01:58 PM | #41 | ||
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I don't know what else to say on this one. This is not usual. This is not what normal relationships look like. Maybe you really do think that this is what all women are like and so it's just something you have to work around? It's just NOT the truth, though. I get what your saying, she a hottie, she got dat gud gud, you don't want to give that up but... I personally say run and don't look back. You will meet someone eventually who you actually trust, and none of this will even be a consideration. Last edited by Toy Soldier; 09-04-2017 at 01:59 PM. |
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09-04-2017, 02:08 PM | #42 | |||
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Putting it bluntly, you would be better off keeping her as a sort of friends with benefits, maybe a weekend shag etc.
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09-04-2017, 02:14 PM | #43 | |||
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09-04-2017, 02:17 PM | #44 | |||
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the truth is ruining the sanctity of marriage
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09-04-2017, 02:28 PM | #45 | ||
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11-05-2017, 11:13 PM | #46 | ||
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11-05-2017, 11:16 PM | #47 | ||
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I know of plenty of people who have done it. I don't personally know anyone who has. To be blunt... I simply can't think of anyone I know who would get so deeply involved with someone they didn't trust . It's a terrible idea.
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11-05-2017, 11:20 PM | #48 | ||
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12-05-2017, 06:27 AM | #49 | |||
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A marriage without trust isn't going to work, don't waste your time and hers with attempting it.
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12-05-2017, 07:48 AM | #50 | ||
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I would do a poem to my partner
you can have all of my wealth its only right we have a pre-nuptial being with me is destroying your health this is evidence that's not circumstantial. and when I inherit I will move to the village peak sitting pretty at the top is the merit our awful marriage will be my bitter leak. : joker: |
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