[user104658]

Originally Posted by the truth

Ive no idea what youre on about, this is whats happenning and this is the situation, if you choose to believe its all make believe good for you

as for everyone else, thanks for your constructive replies, tricky situation not sure what to do next tbh...blinking gorgous girl with some redeeming qualities despite the obvious drawbacks

If this is real then you have some deeply unhealthy personal relationship issues and you need to get away from her permanently, and not consider entering into anything more than a very casual relationship with anyone until you have sorted through those issues.

I don't know what else to say on this one.

This is not usual. This is not what normal relationships look like. Maybe you really do think that this is what all women are like and so it's just something you have to work around? It's just NOT the truth, though. I get what your saying, she a hottie, she got dat gud gud, you don't want to give that up but... I personally say run and don't look back. You will meet someone eventually who you actually trust, and none of this will even be a consideration.