[Withano]

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy

True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Withano

True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

[Drew.]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Drew.

He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience

Was this after the 3rd or 4th?

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Drew.

He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience

Clearly not as he cheated on four different people.

[Drew.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Clearly not as he cheated on four different people.

I don't condone it, but people feel remorse for all types of things, i don't know why cheating has to be excluded from it?

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Clearly not as he cheated on four different people.

It's a Human flaw that he has, overall I like that he feels like a Human Being.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Drew.

He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience

A remorseful person wouldnt keep doing it

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Drew.

He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience

So remorseful he repeated the mistake in multiple relationships?

[Drew.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

So remorseful he repeated the mistake in multiple relationships?

Yes because i obviously meant he was remoseful and then went on to cheat again, but you make up and believe what you like

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

I agree. He has obviously given this information to make good housemate material. He knows the show inside and out...don't tell me he didn't think this stuff would be exposed
Then crying about it purely out of concern on how it will make him look is pathetic.
TIBB member or not...I will judge him like any other housemate. He is not dislikeable by any means...I don't really care about what he has done. But just stand up and say you regret it instead of crying for the sympathy vote. The most telling thing is that he really only cares about the way it portrays HIM and how it may ruin his chances of progressing in his beloved programme.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

I'm sure being cheated on feels the same regardless though. If you want to explore stay single

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

Um no

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Um no

Oh lol. I would have thought it would be less of a blow. I've not been on either side.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

Oh lol. I would have thought it would be less of a blow. I've not been on either side.

Well I havent either but besides the betrayal of being cheated on you could also be left thinking your whole relationship was a lie and your b/f was possibly repulsed everytime you did anything

[Vanessa]

Maybe he's polyamorous like Jade.

[Marc]

Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

Not sure, still hurts I guess

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

No. Being cheated on is horrific either way. I was a mess when I got cheated on, I blamed myself which in hindesight was so silly.

He must have very little humility if he can do that to a person 4 times.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

No. Being cheated on is horrific either way. I was a mess when I got cheated on, I blamed myself which in hindesight was so silly.

He must have very little humility if he can do that to a person 4 times.

Yeh, cant be an accident if you do it more than once really.

It just sounds like hes tried to surpress his sexuality perhaps? But inevitably caved. And that does sound slightly less douchey than other reasons for cheating imo.

It does make him a bit douchey, especially considering he cheated on a man with a man.... but not as douchey as the average serial cheat from my perspective.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Withano

Yeh, cant be an accident if you do it more than once really.

It just sounds like hes tried to surpress his sexuality perhaps? But inevitably caved. And that does sound slightly less douchey than other reasons for cheating imo.

It does make him a bit douchey, especially considering he cheated on a man with a man.... but not as douchey as the average serial cheat from my perspective.

See that last paragraph is why its not better than being cheated on with another girl cos in your eyes the only time it was bad was when he cheated on a guy so the other relationships werent "real" but they would have been for the girls so thats an extra hurt to deal with

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

See that last paragraph is why its not better than being cheated on with another girl cos in your eyes the only time it was bad was when he cheated on a guy so the other relationships werent "real" but they would have been for the girls so thats an extra hurt to deal with

Yeh.. I presumed they werent really meaningful relationships.. like hes gay.. how far can he literally go with a girl? But perhaps im wrong, maybe they were meaningful. Guess id need more info.