[the truth]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Indeed.

I don't see why men would be excluded from a helpline though tbh. I find that very odd and kind of want to see this report myself as I cannot understand how a national domestic abuse helpline could exclude half the country...

I totally understand female only shelters and such and understand why there are more of them than male ones. Usually, females set them up to help other females who are terrified of males as they have been abused. Excluding male people from those areas is completely right I think as females go there to escape and even the mere sight of a male could be scary right after being attacked.

Yes there should be more shelters for males, BUT..how many males are actually seriously injured or mentally scarred enough to have to use a shelter? Again we probably do not known because males bottle it all up for fear of being seen as 'not a man' and such.

Basically, until males attitudes towards themselves and other males changes, this problem will still be here. Its not the fault of 'feminists' who wish to help females who actually ask for help.

So we're still simply blaming abused men now for being abused and not speaking out? When there is no one to listen to them and no one to take them seriously? its a catch 22 situation , that is an absolute nightmare for the millions of men who do face abuse, physically, mentally , emotionally, financially etc etc etc lets not forget the supposed physical strength advantage is the reason why male victims are ignored...

But its virtually irrelevant...A violent woman can hurt a man in a million different ways and often get away with it.. With weapons knives , they can destroy property, rack up credit bills, change locks to property, make fake accusations, take his children, accuse him of all sorts or even get other people at attack him.

Even the so called physical superiority of men has virtually disappeared. Men die younger on average by 5 years across every country in the western world. The actual gap in strength has narrowed massively too to virtually nothing. Yet men still carry out the vast majority of the worst hardest dirtiest most dangerous jobs like climbing into the burning grenfell flats to save lives and risk their own

The truth is feminism isnt about equality whatsoever , its about taking as much as possible for women which means taking away as much as possible from men. So men die 5 years younger have infinitely less support, less spent on them, less empathy, less people to talk to, less rights. This is why men commit suicide at 5 times the rate, die younger, yet get 50 times less spent on them. Over 80% of fathers lose custody of their children and their family home. Therefore 80% of boys have no relationship and are cut off from their fathers and often poisoned against them. Meanwhile boys in schools are light years behind girls and in universities too. We are constantly told how dumb boys are, how women can multi task and boys cant. We have almost no male teachers at juniors and infants for fear of false accusations of sexual assaults. Yet these estranged fathers who are kicked out of the homes they spent their entire lives working for and paying for and kicked out of the kids lives. Kids they nurtured fed and clothed and loved. After being destroyed, they get no support and if these men dont kill themselves they are hounded to give half their wages to these women who take their children and homes or they go to prison.

Mans world my ass. Men are massively discriminated against in western society. Often the feminist debate then flips to , oh but women are oppresed in the third world. yes they are, but that doesnt justify discriminating against men in western society simply to redress the balance. There is no balance no justice no equality and we know apply laws and cultural norms in a wholly different way to men and women.