[Jake.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Not really, he's just pointing out that he wouldn't know his sexuality, plus he could have been gay himself

People are very quick to bring up sexuality, race, colour, religion etc every time they get into an argument or anything of the like and sure sometimes it may be the reason but in many cases it's not

Nobody has “gotten into an argument” though, the OP received random and unwarranted abuse and I think it’s pretty easy to see why he’d believe it to be homophobic? How do you know that “in many cases” sexuality/race/colour aren’t factors in abuse? Take the upsurge in abuse directed at women wearing headscarves after recent attacks, is that not directed at religion?

No, of course not every argument boils down to the above, but it’s pretty obvious when someone is being racist or xenophobic or homophobic and when someone like the OP feels attacked, “get over yourself” isn’t really the answer