[Livia]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

And a very silly saying too . I know countless gays who are not part of a " community" they are themselves and no one represents them, never mind an idiot in a tv reality show

We don't always agree, you and I Chuff, but I totally agree with you on this. All my gay friends are just part of the wider community, with a mixture of friends... I don't understand why people would want to section themselves off in the way some gay people want. Everyone has opinions, if we're going to scrutinise everyone to make sure they're views are "acceptable" before deciding whether they're good or bad, we're all going to be pretty lonely.