[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

This thread is such a mess . Withano... I'm not sure if you've noticed, but you're the only one still regularly rising to Brillo. She is pretty much only here to argue - if you don't engage, she doesn't post. I tested this out a few months ago, by not engaging with it for ages in a massive thread. She barely posted at all. Then I deliberately gave a small "in" for her to kick off and I swear she was there within 5 minutes with the "OH YEAH AND WHO ARE YOU TO BLAH BLAH BLAH".

She's just watching threads and waiting for an opportunity to argue . The mods know fine well and don't seem to care, so it really is pointless to bother.

It's a shame really as I actually think Brillo is perfectly CAPABLE of making sound and reasonable posts... She just seems to thrive on all of the other crap . Especially when it prompts the same handful of members to start posting "in support" (Kazanne, Cherie, Jaxie, Parm, sometimes Alf).

Its like groundhog day except without the affable performance of Bill Murray. Boring af. We all need to stop doing it ffs.

(The irony that I am doing it right now doesn't escape me btw... And I'm sure this will promptly be deleted... But honestly this nonsense has been going on for YEARS at this point. Every thread turning into the same basic thread with the same posts, from the same people, over and over and over...)

it..really you really are so arrogant at times

you forgot Ammi in your list

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

I don't come on here to argue actually TS. But certain posters' opinions are sometimes like a red rag to a bull. Withano is only out to rile - so I play his game to some degree. And less of the IT please TS unless you want to sink even lower than the rest of us. I thought women were supposed to be the bitches.

Originally Posted by Cherie

it..really you really are so arrogant at times

you forgot Ammi in your list

"I refuse to engage with it" as in, I refuse to engage with the insistence on arguing. I wasn't calling Brillo an "it". But we'll done for riling Brillo up further, I see she has amended her original fairly calm post based on your misunderstanding. Dumb ol' Cherie.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

"I refuse to engage with it" as in, I refuse to engage with the insistence on arguing. I wasn't calling Brillo an "it". But we'll done for riling Brillo up further, I see she has amended her original fairly calm post based on your misunderstanding. Silly Cherie.

Nothing to do with Cherry TS. My actions not hers.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Nothing to do with Cherry TS. My actions not hers.

You had already replied, I saw your original reply. Then Cherie made a post complaining about me saying "it" because she had completely misunderstood part of my post. Then you edited your own post to complain about the same thing. I'm not having a go, I'm just saying... That was the exact sequence of events... The posts and edits have time stamps on them . I don't even want to argue, I'm just sick of people not calling a spade a spade.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

You had already replied, I saw your original reply. Then Cherie made a post complaining about me saying "it" because she had completely misunderstood part of my post. Then you edited your own post to complain about the same thing. I'm not having a go, I'm just saying... That was the exact sequence of events... The posts and edits have time stamps on them . I don't even want to argue, I'm just sick of people not calling a spade a spade.

I re-read your post and noticed it when I hadn't before. Don't try and put it on to Cherie. You see 1and1 doesn't always equal 2 when there are other variants in an equation.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

I re-read your post and noticed it when I hadn't before. Don't try and put it on to Cherie. You see 1and1 doesn't always equal 2 when there are other variants in an equation.

Oh well. Either way, you are both mistaken and I wasn't calling you an "it", when I said "it" I was just talking about "the whole situation".

Apologies if that was in some way unclear and caused offense.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

You had already replied, I saw your original reply. Then Cherie made a post complaining about me saying "it" because she had completely misunderstood part of my post. Then you edited your own post to complain about the same thing. I'm not having a go, I'm just saying... That was the exact sequence of events... The posts and edits have time stamps on them . I don't even want to argue, I'm just sick of people not calling a spade a spade.

I read it as you calling brillopad an it as well...sorry.