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Captain.Remy · 22-02-2010, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by setanta

Well yeah, you deserved that lol. Don't laugh, but don't get emotional either. They fecking hate you being logical when they've got the hump... drives them nutty!

The worst thing is, when you say "What's wrong ?" and she says "Nothing", you know you're dead.

InOne · 22-02-2010, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Did it leave a mark?

InOne · 22-02-2010, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by setanta

Well yeah, you deserved that lol. Don't laugh, but don't get emotional either. They fecking hate you being logical when they've got the hump... drives them nutty!

Yeah, they seem to hate being called dear as well lol

setanta · 22-02-2010, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

The worst thing is, when you say "What's wrong ?" and she says "Nothing", you know you're dead.

Just walk away at that point cuz you're a dead man if she launches an attack. Get out... red alert.

Patrick · 22-02-2010, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy

Never, theres always something wrong

This.

setanta · 22-02-2010, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne

Yeah, they seem to hate being called dear as well lol

They just hate logic when they're angry at you. It's all emotion for them when they're hurt or feel wronged. But yeah, dear is another no no when an argument comes along.

Shasown · 22-02-2010, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

The worst thing is, when you say "What's wrong ?" and she says "Nothing", you know you're dead.

PMSL very true, so dont ask, you are expected to know. Just apologise in a very open sincere but non specific way. And for gods sake try to avoid answering the question "what are you apologising for?"

InOne · 22-02-2010, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by setanta

They just hate logic when they're angry at you. It's all emotion for them when they're hurt or feel wronged. But yeah, dear is another no no when an argument comes along.

Yeah, I just nod my head and let her think shes right lol

setanta · 22-02-2010, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne

Yeah, I just nod my head and let her think shes right lol

You're actually better off in a situation like that, as crazy as that sounds lol.

Captain.Remy · 22-02-2010, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Shasown

PMSL very true, so dont ask, you are expected to know. Just apologise in a very open sincere but non specific way. And for gods sake try to avoid answering the question "what are you apologising for?"

But if you don't ask, she'll go like "But you didn't see I wasn't feeling well, why don't you ever take care of my feelings etc............." You're screwed both ways and you can say bye bye to your night.

setanta · 22-02-2010, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

But if you don't ask, she'll go like "But you didn't see I wasn't feeling well, why don't you ever take care of my feelings etc............." You're screwed both ways and you can say bye bye to your night.

You see women can be so manipulative with their emotions when it involves us, you know? We're idiots, but sure you can see us coming a mile away. Girls have a different way of getting back at us.

InOne · 22-02-2010, 08:58 PM

Women are predictable, yet ridiculously unpredictable at the same time lol

Shasown · 22-02-2010, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

But if you don't ask, she'll go like "But you didn't see I wasn't feeling well, why don't you ever take care of my feelings etc............." You're screwed both ways and you can say bye bye to your night.

Nah try this one.

"Hey I know that you are upset and I am really sorry. I didnt realise it would upset you so much. Would you like to talk about it?"

Chances are then you get the outpouring of why "it" upset her so much.

Captain.Remy · 22-02-2010, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne

Women are predictable, yet ridiculously unpredictable at the same time lol

You know what's going to happen but not how it is going to happen.

setanta · 22-02-2010, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Shasown

Nah try this one.

"Hey I know that you are upset and I am really sorry. I didnt realise it would upset you so much. Would you like to talk about it?"

Chances are then you get the outpouring of why "it" upset her so much.

We have egos too though Shawsown lol. I mean, sometimes it's not our fault, you know, as strange as that may be for a woman to accept sometimes!

Shasown · 22-02-2010, 09:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

You know what's going to happen but not how it is going to happen.

Women are like Exocets, you can see it coming but there is sod all you can do to avoid it.

Captain.Remy · 22-02-2010, 09:01 PM

One thing too, when she asks you to make a choice, something wrong is going on.

setanta · 22-02-2010, 09:03 PM

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Shasown · 22-02-2010, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by setanta

We have egos too though Shawsown lol. I mean, sometimes it's not our fault, you know, as strange as that may be for a woman to accept sometimes!

Very true, but the real barrier between men and women is communication.

Take this from me very hard lesson, when she says she has a problem and wants to talk it over, listen sympathetically, make the right yes, no and other sympathetic sounds they use with each other. but the one thing she doesnt want to hear is your ideas about how to rectify things.

One top tip get one of those user manuals for her like, men are from mars..... read it and learn how not to annoy them. Makes for a healthier and happier life all round.

andyman · 22-02-2010, 09:13 PM

When she has a fecking credit card!

setanta · 22-02-2010, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Shasown

Very true, but the real barrier between men and women is communication.

Take this from me very hard lesson, when she says she has a problem and wants to talk it over, listen sympathetically, make the right yes, no and other sympathetic sounds they use with each other. but the one thing she doesnt want to hear is your ideas about how to rectify things.

One top tip get one of those user manuals for her like, men are from mars..... read it and learn how not to annoy them. Makes for a healthier and happier life all round.

No no, I agree with you; I'm just saying that sometimes it can be very difficult.