[Calderyon]

I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avail.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Calderyon

I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avail.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.

You all tried to help her, it was her time, you tried to save her and that will be a comfort in time

[MTVN]

Sounds like you're a very close knit family and you did a wonderful job caring for her these last few years, hopefully you have a lot of happy memories you can cherish

[Alf]

Originally Posted by Calderyon

I was with her when it happened, tried resuscitation as did my Brother and My Father, but to no avsil.

I am not sure if i can ever forget that.

You'll go through lots of different emotions while it's still raw. It's natural and to be expected. It sounds like you did your best by her and from what I know of you then she will be very proud of you.

I feel your pain, I know what you're going through right now, it hurts, there's no pain like losing a loved one.

You're family and friends are going through it too, so try your best to stay strong for each other.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Alf

You'll go through lots of different emotions while it's still raw. It's natural and to be expected. It sounds like you did your best by her and from what I know of you then she will be very proud of you.

I feel your pain, I know what you're going through right now, it hurts, there's no pain like losing a loved one.

You're family and friends are going through it too, so try your best to stay strong for each other.

100 percent agree

[Swan]

When i lost someone close to me, 3 some years ago. I found a genre of music that helps you think. Reflect. It's alone music. It helps you build back up through the pain and tears.

Maybe sh!t for you now, and corny.

If you get a round to listening to this, imagine she is listening too. And in a better place.

Youtube video

Much love brother!

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Calderyon

Completely devastated.

Something terrible happened today.

Aww that’s so sad - I’m lost for words


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[GoldHeart]

Really sad devastating news ,I'm so sorry xx.

[joeysteele]

Really sorry to read this Cald.
Thinking of you.

[Kate!]

I've pmd you Caldy my love.

[Beso]

So sorry to hear this cald.

If I can do anything to help just ask.

[Niamh.]

Oh Cald, I'm so sorry for your loss. Alzeihemers is such a cruel disease, your mother was a lucky lady to have you all caring for her these last few years and she's at peace now, it probably doesn't help to hear that right now though I know

[Nicky91]

i'm really sorry to hear that Caldy, i know you and i dislike each other but i would be heartless (which i'm not at all) if i wouldn't post a comforting message in here, a from me to you

[bots]

i'm so sorry to hear this Caldy

[Swan]

Clad...

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. When i lost someone close to me, i was a wreck, still kinda am. But it's ok to feel, it's ok to cry, it's ok to shout and scream.

We will always be in the same boat. We all go. I found hope in knowing we all have time. Every single person in the world. All we have is time. Your Mother is an Angel now. She is there, every time you look up. Talk to her. And know one day you will meet again!

"all those moments will be lost in time, like tears in the rain"

But you hold those moments dear. This is what makes us human!

Much love mate.

[Calderyon]

Thank you everyone for those messages.

Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Calderyon

Thank you everyone for those messages.

Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.

Unfortunately there's no way around grief, you have to go through it

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Calderyon

Thank you everyone for those messages.

Slept a little.

But i am still in so much pain.

Gosh only just reading about your loss Cald andd i offer my sincerest condolenses to you , your brother and father, also your wider family and friends. Talk about her with them and remember good times, the pain is unbearable and you'll doubtless find it hard to sleep so grab naps when you can, my heart goes out to you for your loss.

[James]

I'm sorry for your loss, Calderyon.

[_Seth]

So sorry to hear this.

Try distracting yourself from the pain by listening to music, watching your favourite films etc. Time will pass and a little bit of the edge will come off.

[Cherie]

How are you and your family Caldy?

[Calderyon]

Originally Posted by Cherie

How are you and your family Caldy?

Not well.

In despair.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Calderyon

Not well.

In despair.

Im so sorry. I know it's hard.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Calderyon

Not well.

In despair.

Losing a life partner and parent is not easy

Thinking about you Cald, I know you might not feel like it but just doing little things to distract you will help, dont give up on the football which is one of your passions and even wordle is a distraction and a bit of normalcy as you do it every day

[Calderyon]

At least she is with my Brother, her Brother, her sister, her Mother (my grandmother on my mother's side), my Grandmother and My Grandfather (on my father's side) and our pet cat and them to look after her and each other.

Hopefully God and Jesus as well.

Some little comfort in that, but still...