[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Razor

Polyamorous, what a daft bint she is basically calling herself a slut.

Such a revolting and derogatory term that men don't have to put up with

[Razor]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Such a revolting and derogatory term that men don't have to put up with

You can get male sluts the word isnt just reserved for the female race.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Razor

You can get male sluts the word isnt just reserved for the female race.

Yes this is always the answer but it's never actually put into practice. You never here men being referred to as sluts or male sluts or whatever

[Razor]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yes this is always the answer but it's never actually put into practice. You never here men being referred to as sluts or male sluts or whatever

Yeah men are called sluts all the time. Its a common term around my neck of the woods.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yes this is always the answer but it's never actually put into practice. You never here men being referred to as sluts or male sluts or whatever

Men are known has Players or Studs but there really male *****s

[Denver]

Sounds like she has had more pricks then a 2nd hand dart board

[Liam-]

'Slut' shaming is never a good look folks, come on now.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

'Slut' shaming is never a good look folks, come on now.

Particularly disappointing coming from other women

[Jason.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

'Slut' shaming is never a good look folks, come on now.

I wasn't shaming her. She can be whoever she chooses to be. I like her as a person. She's lovely.

But she's a slut. Nothing wrong with that.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by BB6

I wasn't shaming her. She can be whoever she chooses to be. I like her as a person. She's lovely.

But she's a slut. Nothing wrong with that.

The word slut is derogatory so by default you are shaming her just be using it

[Jason.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

The word slut is derogatory so by default you are shaming her just be using it

I'm being honest. She said she has a number of sexual partners without commitment. That is the definition of a slut.

It is an offensive word, but It's who she is, and I have no problem with that. So I'm not shaming her. I wasn't looking down on her.

It's like how Helen was a prostitute, last summer. That's often used as a derogatory term. But calling Helen one, isn't because she was one.
Same thing with Jade.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by BB6

I'm being honest. She said she has a number of sexual partners without commitment. That is the definition of a slut.

It is an offensive word, but It's who she is, and I have no problem with that. So I'm not shaming her. I wasn't looking down on her.

It's like how Helen was a prostitute, last summer. That's often used as a derogatory term. But calling Helen one, isn't because she was one.
Same thing with Jade.

Well it's not really, the word Prostitute is actually the proper term for that particular profession, calling her a ***** would have been fifty times worse, don't you think? and the reason for that is it's a slang, derogatory word.

For me there's a massive difference between saying someone is promiscuous and saying someone is a slut. Slut implies someone is nasty and unclean as well

[Liam-]

There's nothing wrong with women enjoying a multitude of finer things in life, be it expensive shopping, fine wine or fine ass men, as long as everything is safe and consensual, then everything is good and no-one else's business.

[Jason.]

Originally Posted by Liam-

There's nothing wrong with women enjoying a multitude of finer things in life, be it expensive shopping, fine wine or fine ass men, as long as everything is safe and consensual, then everything is good and no-one else's business.

I never said it's wrong.

It is my and others business considering she's revealed it on a reality show, watched by over a million people. So we're free to discuss it.

[Jason.]

Bloody hell, she isn't a slut then. She's promiscuous.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by BB6

Bloody hell, she isn't a slut then. She's promiscuous.

Super

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by BB6

Bloody hell, she isn't a slut then. She's promiscuous.

I don't agree with that term either, it suggests her choices are indiscriminate and or immoral

[Kizzy]

If you're not in a relationship but don't like casual sex then this would be a good description of the period inbetween before you meet someone I guess.
Slut is such a derogatory disrespectful term :/

[Northern Monkey]

Where i'm from we don't say 'slut' we usually use 'slag heap' or 'spunk bucket' .Not sure how derogatory those terms are?

[Liam-]

Jade is not a slut, she is a spiritually free woman who doesn't enjoy being monogamous, so she uses her power as an independent woman to do as and who she pleases, when she wants to do so.

I wish more women would be open about this sort of thing, but this has proven that they can't be due to fear of being branded a 'slag' or a 'slut' because they have the same sexual appetite as men do, but apparently aren't allowed to.

[just thinkin]

Originally Posted by Liam-

Jade is not a slut, she is a spiritually free woman who doesn't enjoy being monogamous, so she uses her power as an independent woman to do as and who she pleases, when she wants to do so.

I wish more women would be open about this sort of thing, but this has proven that they can't be due to fear of being branded a 'slag' or a 'slut' because they have the same sexual appetite as men do, but apparently aren't allowed to.

I think the 'old fashioned' version of this frame of mind would have been called a swinger - plenty of those around in the past and it was a well known phrase. I think this 'new' word is just becoming trendy and basically describes a young person with a healthy sex life that doesn't want to settle down until they become more mature - jade is not really polyamorous - she proved that last night when she said that when she settles down and meets 'the one' it all has to stop. she's not polyamoupus - she just thinks she is - she's basically the exact same as any other young one trying to find 'the one'. She'll blend in just like most people when she grows up. All young ones like to think they are original and different but in reality it's all been done before.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by just thinkin

I think the 'old fashioned' version of this frame of mind would have been called a swinger - plenty of those around in the past and it was a well known phrase. I think this 'new' word is just becoming trendy and basically describes a young person with a healthy sex life that doesn't want to settle down until they become more mature - jade is not really polyamorous - she proved that last night when she said that when she settles down and meets 'the one' it all has to stop. she's not polyamoupus - she just thinks she is - she's basically the exact same as any other young one trying to find 'the one'. She'll blend in just like most people when she grows up. All young ones like to think they are original and different but in reality it's all been done before.

Very true

[GypsyGoth]

I'm looking forward to the day I meet a polyamorous pansexual.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

I'm looking forward to the day I meet a polyamorous pansexual.

I'm Pansexual but not Polyamorous

[Kizzy]

Your position in the fan club is rocky at best...