[jaxie]

I wrote about this on another thread but to be brief I think if you are straight then you are attracted to the opposite sex so it's likely you wouldn't date a trans sexual because you wouldn't fancy them. I have never seen someone who is trans that you couldn't really tell by looking at them and most people start relationships with some physical attraction.

There is also the question of children, most couples want a family and that would be a factor for some people.

[Maxxie.]

What’s interesting is I was about to click yes as I imagined being fine developing a relationship with a trans woman if I had feelings no problem (I’m bisexual) but then I imagined a relationship with a transgender man and tbh I am a bit hmmm and I don’t know why! the answer isn’t neccesarily no but I did have to think about it!

Maybe it’s because I prefer guys and the thought of having sex with a post-op trans woman would be fine but idk I guess the thought of a post op man who I’d subconsiously think as a women/used to be a woman just wouldn’t do anything for me sexually I don’t think even though I am somewhat attracted to women.

I have literally never thought about that until now !

[empire]

no

[mr rochester]

India is the worst possible person to represent her own demographic.

[pontyboi]

No because I'm personally into guys and they haven't perfected the willy yet it just looks like a big clit.

If I was straight im not sure seeing as there are so many trans women out there who are actually hotter than the real thing.

It's all about preference at the end of the day.

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

No because I'm personally into guys and they haven't perfected the willy yet it just looks like a big clit.

If I was straight im not sure seeing as there are so many trans women out there who are actually hotter than the real thing.

It's all about preference at the end of the day.

Did you never stop to wonder if trans women are hotter than the real thing to you because you prefer men? A straight person may not feel the same.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

No because I'm personally into guys and they haven't perfected the willy yet it just looks like a big clit.

If I was straight im not sure seeing as there are so many trans women out there who are actually hotter than the real thing.

It's all about preference at the end of the day.

There are some who are beautiful and some who look like a docker in a frock. Just like with born women... I think it's a stretch to say that there are "so many out there who are actually hotter than the real thing". You aren't attracted to women, so I'm not sure you can make that call.

[Amy Jade]

If I felt a bond and a sexual attraction then yes probably.

[Natalie.]

Possibly, depends on a few things

[Nicky91]

yes, cause i have respect for the LGBTQ Community


but if it's India, a definite no, but that's more about her personality, which is vile and disrespectful not her gender

[ethanjames]

i actually have previously I dated a trans guy and he was great so if we got along I would 100%.

[Underscore]

Unless the transsexual is masculine, with a dick and big muscles then no.

[Livia]

No, I am not attracted to transsexuals.

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Livia

No, I am not attracted to transsexuals.

But you wouldn’t know unless they told you

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Smithy

But you wouldn’t know unless they told you

For God’s sake. Almost twice the amount of people on here, a predominantly young site say no. It would be higher in the real world. Respect works both ways. You can’t browbeat people into submission.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Smithy

But you wouldn’t know unless they told you

You think not?

There would be a point where it became glaringly obvious...

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Livia

You think not?

There would be a point where it became glaringly obvious...

So up until the point of sleeping with someone... you’d form a relationship with them and then all of a sudden they just become unattractive?

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Smithy

So up until the point of sleeping with someone... you’d form a relationship with them and then all of a sudden they just become unattractive?

I am not on trial here Smithy... But for the record, if you believe that I would be fooled into thinking a transsexual man was a born man from minute ONE of meeting them, then I imagine you haven't met that many transsexuals in the real world.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Smithy

So up until the point of sleeping with someone... you’d form a relationship with them and then all of a sudden they just become unattractive?

I am willing to answer this. I man be attracted to a transman sure, some of them do pass very well. But would not be sleeping with someone who looked like a man who had a vagina. Nor one of the fake penises as they look ridiculous and of course you can tell. The neovaginas look a bit more convincing (depending on surgeon) but its still vastly different to the real thing and I expect someone with a lifetime experience of shagging vagina-d people would know that a neovagina is not anything like a vagina in anything bar looks. Smell, feel, everything is very different.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Livia

You think not?

There would be a point where it became glaringly obvious...

But unless you jump into bed with them, you could be going on dates without knowing.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

But unless you jump into bed with them, you could be going on dates without knowing.

Again, you've not met many transsexuals if you think that's true.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Smithy

But you wouldn’t know unless they told you

This a good point to be fair.

[MTVN]

I get the genitalia aversion I guess but apart from that I don't really see what it is exactly that makes transsexuals inherently undateable to so many people?

[Withano]

none of you have answered Smithy though, which speaks volumes

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Withano

none of you have answered Smithy though, which speaks volumes

What is the question you'd like answered, withano?

I have said clearly I do not find transsexuals attractive, in much the same way I don't find men under 5'5" attractive. So I'm getting a LITTLE tired of having to explain myself.