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Old 05-12-2018, 10:34 PM #1
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I still think it's down to him to win her mother over tbh


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Yes, but equally, it's down to her mum to give him a fair chance.

There's no winning over someone who is stubborn and refuses to accept they might be wrong.
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I've no idea on how far in you are with your relationship but you clearly know your boyfriend better than your mum, your mum veeerry likely just had a bad first impression with him. Also I could only guess there's an inkling of "my daughter deserve better!" and her wanting you to have what's best, and even if he is the best for you (I feel bad using 'if' but as I say, I don't know him) your mum wouldn't know that

what matters is your happiness. And besides, some people that don't like each other end up being the best of friends. Who knows, your mum and boyfriend may become the best of friends
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If you are close to your mum you should be able to talk to her...ask her why she thinks he is cocky..and tell her how much you like him and how he makes you feel. Tell her it's unfair that she hasn't given him a chance and ask her to do it for you.
Every parent wants the best for their children...maybe she has heard things about him that she doesn't like..
Ask her to give him a chance...and take it from there. If she sees how happy he makes you she might change her mind. We all want our kids to be happy...but sometimes you can be blinded 'by love' and not see what is blatantly obvious to those who care about you.
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If you have too much on your plate why respond at all?

Because it's clearly you trying to score "morality points" and make it all personal.

Oh, look, sheriff has a real life and real problems. Yeah, we all do. But I don't come in here looking for sympathy for it because someone used the word "girl", yeah that's right "girl", not "young girl".

Don't DARE presume to know anything about me or what I deal with off this forum and then give me a self pitying paragraph expecting sympathy!
Do one!
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If you have too much on your plate why respond at all?

Because it's clearly you trying to score "morality points" and make it all personal.

Oh, look, sheriff has a real life and real problems. Yeah, we all do. But I don't come in here looking for sympathy for it because someone used the word "girl", yeah that's right "girl", not "young girl".

Don't DARE presume to know anything about me or what I deal with off this forum and then give me a self pitying paragraph expecting sympathy!
Do one!
You are so deluded thinking I want sympathy from any one on here. And no I won’t do one!.
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You are so deluded thinking I want sympathy from any one on here. And no I won’t do one!.
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If this is really out of character Amy, is there any way your mum could have seen / met / know of him before. It seems an intense dislike and if she's not like this with other guys you've dated could she know something about him that she's not telling you. I would sit down with her and have a chat and ask her to be honest. Tell her you really like him(if you do) and thats its important to you for her to give him a chance.

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Don't worry about it Amycakes, my mother in law still doesn't like me and I'll have been with my wife for 12 years in April .
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Don't worry about it Amycakes, my mother in law still doesn't like me and I'll have been with my wife for 12 years in April .
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Don't worry about it Amycakes, my mother in law still doesn't like me and I'll have been with my wife for 12 years in April .
It's like a weird cliche' , but TS if I was you and if it's been 12 years !!! and you're still disliked then I would have to confront the person and ask WHY . If you still get a frosty reception then sadly you'll never be close with your in laws .
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It's like a weird cliche' , but TS if I was you and if it's been 12 years !!! and you're still disliked then I would have to confront the person and ask WHY . If you still get a frosty reception then sadly you'll never be close with your in laws .
They live 300 miles away in another country and we only see them 3 or 4 times a year, I don't think we're ever going to be bezzies . And to be fair at this point its perfectly polite and civil, which is fine .
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They live 300 miles away in another country and we only see them 3 or 4 times a year, I don't think we're ever going to be bezzies . And to be fair at this point its perfectly polite and civil, which is fine .
Ohhh well I guess that's something then . Didn't realise they lived far from you .
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My mum is usually right about people and it takes alot for her to dislike a person so if it were me I'd pay attention to that but not everyone is my mom, is yours a good judge of character generally?
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My mum is usually right about people and it takes alot for her to dislike a person so if it were me I'd pay attention to that but not everyone is my mom, is yours a good judge of character generally?
I think Justin Beiber wrote a song about that
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Your mum's probably banged him on a night out in the past, it happens.
Yeah these kind of posts just aren't funny at all.
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