[Liam-]

What have my favourites got to do with me not liking cheats?

If we ignore Sarah cause I’m a GA Stan and that overrides everything and she was a mess it wasn’t her best moment

[caprimint]

I don't care about Sarah Literally referring to you thinking 'cheats' are vile yet not caring about what eg. Renee said for example lmao it's so strange wsjdkkedkek

[Liam-]

I didn’t say they were vile lmao you’re so extra, I’m just not a fan of cheating in the majority of cases and yes, I cant say I really care what people say in reaction to a grown ass devil child tormenting them

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by Liam-

I didn’t say they were vile lmao you’re so extra, I’m just not a fan of cheating in the majority of cases and yes, I cant say I really care what people say in reaction to a grown ass devil child tormenting them

lmao you’re so extra

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[Liam-]

Do you start as well

[caprimint]

So true though

[JerseyWins]

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

Ugh just everything you said

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

Seriously though, how do you know that?

I’d agree that not every case is black and white. Some people might cheat because they’ve been treated poorly, others might cheat because they’re just a ****ty person. Not every person who cheats is a bad person, sure, but some people do just cheat on their partners for the simple fact that they’re unable to stay faithful and that’s not ok.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

Maybe not but when they continue to carry on the cheating is soo bad because they actually know it's going to hurt their partner but continue to lie about it. Cheating can lead to all sorts of things because it ****s with their emotions . Bear is a serial cheater, not saying he is scum but that is awful and doesn't make you a good person at all. Also Bear's CBB cheat was done on TV which is super humiliating for that person, he knew she was watching.

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Maybe not but when they continue to carry on the cheating is soo bad because they actually know it's going to hurt their partner but continue to lie about it. Cheating can lead to all sorts of things because it ****s with their emotions . Bear is a serial cheater, not saying he is scum but that is awful and doesn't make you a good person at all. Also Bear's CBB cheat was done on TV which is super humiliating for that person, he knew she was watching.

I think it's bad in Bear's case, especially this current situation that happened between him & his girl when the shoe was (allegedly/accused) on the other foot, but doesn't make the person vile even if it happened multiple times.

[Liam-]

I don’t buy people not intending to hurt someone when they cheat, they know what’s going to happen, they can’t believe their other half will be happy about it

[Liam-]

Like Jake said, some circumstances I don’t have an issue with, like someone in an abusive relationship, falls in love with someone else but is scared to leave, cheat away, get the good stuff, but a person who just decides to cheat on someone for no other reason than they want to and they can and show no remorse, I don’t think is a good person

[Jigs]

Cheating is deceit. Of course they know it's going to harm their partner that's why it's almost always kept a secret. I've been with my partner 4 years and would never cheat. Why? Because it takes a bigger person to end the relationship prior to committing the betrayal. You can't have your cake and eat it. It's so indicative of emotional immaturity that I can't believe the (im)morality of it is even being debated at this point.

[Marsh.]

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

Seriously though, how do you know that?

I’d agree that not every case is black and white. Some people might cheat because they’ve been treated poorly, others might cheat because they’re just a ****ty person. Not every person who cheats is a bad person, sure, but some people do just cheat on their partners for the simple fact that they’re unable to stay faithful and that’s not ok.

The way he knows that without first hand experience which is more than you guys could do

Originally Posted by Liam-

I don’t buy people not intending to hurt someone when they cheat, they know what’s going to happen, they can’t believe their other half will be happy about it

Okay so when you have done things that are wrong do you always think of/consider the other person? Doubt it lmao

Unless you haven't been in that situation
Which also doesnt matter either way

People are not expected to act perfectly every time they are in a situation that requires more than a sentence on a screen

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

The way he knows that without first hand experience which is more than you guys could do


Okay so when you have done things that are wrong do you always think of/consider the other person? Doubt it lmao

Unless you haven't been in that situation
Which also doesnt matter either way

People are not expected to act perfectly every time they are in a situation that requires more than a sentence on a screen

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Jake.

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

Jake: People...

Stacey: Don't speak about PEOPLE in GENERAL! You don't know them!

But lemme tell you about YOU!

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

Oh Jake pls lmao. Stop trying to make it personal.

You're as bad as the rest of them which is sad to say

[Matthew.]

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

Off on another tangent.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

I never mentioned discord once, so back and look at that for yourself

Originally Posted by caprimint

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

You're not even paying attention to what you're typing.

Embarrassing.

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner. It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.