[Crimson Dynamo]

no bloke likes the thought of 2 blokes having sex or kissing.

natural selection/evolution dictates so.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

yes but you can aim a little higher than that

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

yes but you can aim a little higher than that

That is the highest aim imo

[Vicky.]

Many straight men are not comfortable with the idea of gay men having sex (mind strangely it is fine for THEIR desires to be doing a girl up the bum...fascinating, same thing really ). It does not make them homophobic...

[letmein]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

Like I have said before, doll face, being uncomfortable with something isn't homophobic.

ho·mo·pho·bia
noun \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\

: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals

aver·sion
noun \ə-ˈvər-zhən, -shən\
Definition of AVERSION
1
obsolete : the act of turning away
2
a : a feeling of repugnance toward something with a desire to avoid or turn from it <regards drunkenness with aversion> b : a settled dislike : antipathy <expressed an aversion to parties> c : a tendency to extinguish a behavior or to avoid a thing or situation and especially a usually pleasurable one because it is or has been associated with a noxious stimulus
3
: an object of aversion <inconstancy is my aversion — Jane Austen>


It is what it is.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

I think you are putting 2+2 together and getting 1.5%

[letmein]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

This is a discusion, we are discussing, that is his opinion, which I don't find homophobic.

And I do.

[Angus]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

yes but you can aim a little higher than that

And what exactly would you define as aiming higher than wanting your child to find true love and happiness with a partner who loves them back?

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

I think if Patrick ever does have a daughter he may just change his mind on whether he'd let her sleep with anyone in his house, male or female!!

I agree with that-I have two adult sons and the whole having sex in the next bedroom thing feels really weird. Its an interesting subject though because it seems to be general opinion with forum mothers that they don't mind sexuality as long as their sons find the right person but I wonder if forum fathers also have this opinion. I'm only mentioning sons not daughters because Patrick said he wouldn't feel comfortable with them having sex upstairs. I don't think Patrick's homophobic by the way

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by letmein

ho·mo·pho·bia
noun \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\

: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals

aver·sion
noun \ə-ˈvər-zhən, -shən\
Definition of AVERSION
1
obsolete : the act of turning away
2
a : a feeling of repugnance toward something with a desire to avoid or turn from it <regards drunkenness with aversion> b : a settled dislike : antipathy <expressed an aversion to parties> c : a tendency to extinguish a behavior or to avoid a thing or situation and especially a usually pleasurable one because it is or has been associated with a noxious stimulus
3
: an object of aversion <inconstancy is my aversion — Jane Austen>


It is what it is.

unfortunately for your stance that is not the same as blokes not liking what homosexuals do.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Not really just because someone is vegan and hates the thought of someone eating meat doesn't mean they hate meat eaters, does it?

Thats a really good example actually...

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by angus58

And what exactly would you define as aiming higher than wanting your child to find true love and happiness with a partner who loves them back?

that is not what Neevy said

please go back to her post

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

no bloke likes the thought of 2 blokes having sex or kissing.

natural selection/evolution dictates so.

i dont think a bloke would want to think of there daughter having sex or kissing apart from patrick.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Thats a really good example actually...

lmao, yes indeed.......

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

That is the highest aim imo

what about Olympic gold, a Blue peter Badge winner, being on IACGMOOH, a famous author, MD or a large company, Spy, pilot or a cross channel swimmer?

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by letmein

ho·mo·pho·bia
noun \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\

: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals

aver·sion
noun \ə-ˈvər-zhən, -shən\
Definition of AVERSION
1
obsolete : the act of turning away
2
a : a feeling of repugnance toward something with a desire to avoid or turn from it <regards drunkenness with aversion> b : a settled dislike : antipathy <expressed an aversion to parties> c : a tendency to extinguish a behavior or to avoid a thing or situation and especially a usually pleasurable one because it is or has been associated with a noxious stimulus
3
: an object of aversion <inconstancy is my aversion — Jane Austen>


It is what it is.

Actually the OED definition is an 'extreme or irrational aversion...'

(worded differently)

Saying that he wouldn't be comfortable with his son having sex with another man in his house, to me, isn't an extreme aversion.

If he were to never talk to people because they were homosexual, or avoid being near them, then that would be an extreme aversion.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

what about Olympic gold, a Blue peter Badge winner, being on IACGMOOH, a famous author, MD or a large company, Spy, pilot or a cross channel swimmer?

all meaningless if you're not happy with your life though.

[Ammi]

I meant to say - parents would find it a bit weird to think about their kids having sex full stop - with opposite or same sex - but thats the point we don't think about them having sex at all that would be too weird - the same way they could never think about what their parents do in bed - who needs details

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

what about Olympic gold, a Blue peter Badge winner, being on IACGMOOH, a famous author, MD or a large company, Spy, pilot or a cross channel swimmer?

what a scary parent you're gonna be!!!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

all meaningless if you're not happy with your life though.

being happy with your life is a fairly meaningless and vague concept. Most folks would change their opinion about that after each meal!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

what a scary parent you're gonna be!!!

there is nothing wrong with beating a child for failing to be an Olympic Champion

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rhino

I meant to say - parents would find it a bit weird to think about their kids having sex full stop - with opposite or same sex - but thats the point we don't think about them having sex at all that would be too weird - the same way they could never think about what their parents do in bed - who needs details

Yeah, I reckon most parents will agree with that, your child having sex with anyone at all is not something parents like to think about, for the people who don't have kids reverse it, I bet ye don't like to think about your parents at it!! That's a good example for Patrick actually rhino, may just change his mind on his daughter sleeping with a girl in his house!!

[Crimson Dynamo]

no children should be having sex full stop

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

being happy with your life is a fairly meaningless and vague concept. Most folks would change their opinion about that after each meal!

Most parents just want their children to find a partner they'll be happy with, who wont beat or cheat on them - what sex they are does not matter

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

being happy with your life is a fairly meaningless and vague concept. Most folks would change their opinion about that after each meal!

I disagree, I think it's a hugely important thing. I often think about it, I know certain people who are actually incapable of being happy, no matter what they get and that to me must be terrible.