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Niamh. · 23-11-2010, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

and every mum and dad wants the child to have a relationship like they did with children.

fact

My main hope for my children is that they're happy LT. That overrides everything else.

Benjamin · 23-11-2010, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

and every mum and dad wants the child to have a relationship like they did with children.

fact

Doesn't mean all will be disappointed. Fact!

Miss Ivy Balls · 23-11-2010, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Patrick

That's bollocks.

DISCRIMINATING against them, Singling them out and saying Homophobic remarks is Homophobic.

Not wanting your child to ****** another man upstairs is not homophobic especially when I said he can do whatever he likes just not in my house.

Yet it is fine if it was your daughter with another girl or bloke.

Let's take out the bloke at bloke from here.

What's the problem?

You don't feel comfortable with gay people having sex, but you do with lesbians and heterosexual people?

Anyway. I'm taking a back seat. I don't want to get into this and wish I'd not said anything.

Benjamin · 23-11-2010, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Thomas C

Yet it is fine if it was your daughter with another girl or bloke.

Let's take out the bloke at bloke from here.

What's the problem?

You don't feel comfortable with gay people having sex, but you do with lesbians and heterosexual people?

Anyway. I'm taking a back seat. I don't want to get into this and wish I'd not said anything.

Not being comfortable with something isn't hompophobic Thomas. It's when people go out of their way to make it known and constantly show their detest and disgust in a spiteful manner.

Mystic Mock · 23-11-2010, 04:09 PM

ive got to say that this thread has made me worry for patrick,his came up with posts that i would never read on another forum and is a bit homophobic towards gay guys without realising.

Novo · 23-11-2010, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by jedward fever

ive got to say that this thread has made me worry for patrick,his came up with posts that i would never read on another forum and is a bit homophobic towards gay guys without realising.

I agree on most things he has said in this thread, or at least share the same views as him.. he hasn't said anything i would class as homophobic, what do you think he has said that you would say is homophobic?

Mystic Mock · 23-11-2010, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Novo

I agree on most things he has said in this thread, or at least share the same views as him.. he hasn't said anything i would class as homophobic, what do you think he has said that you would say is homophobic?

well him saying that he would exclude his gay son because his gay is homophobic imo,also him saying that he would only want to have his daughter have sex with a girl in his house is sexist because he dosent want to have his son have sex with a guy in his house.

Angus · 23-11-2010, 04:22 PM

I would not have been bothered if either of my sons had said they were gay - I just want them to be happy in life. As it happens they are both heterosexual. I can't imagine why it would be a problem, other than that some people are fixated on having grandchildren, although these days gay couples are able to have biological children either through surrogacy or through sperm donors.

Vicky. · 23-11-2010, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by ukturtle

Not being comfortable with something isn't hompophobic Thomas. It's when people go out of their way to make it known and constantly show their detest and disgust in a spiteful manner.

This.

In my group of mates theres a very good mix of all sorts of different people. Whilst they all get on fine, some of my male mates get a bit uncomfortable when the gay ones start talking(usually in detail...) about who they did last night...and vice versa actually. Could hardly say they are homophobic...just dont particularly want to know the details of/hear/see the others having sex.

Smithy · 23-11-2010, 04:30 PM

Well I think it's fair to say Patrick should be banned from having Children

letmein · 23-11-2010, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Patrick

Not it is not.

Think of it this way Stu,

Would you rather watch Lesbian Porn or Gay Porn?
Obviously if my kids turned out gay I wouldn't watch them or get turned on by the thought of them doing it upstairs.

But I'd be much more happier with the fact my daughter and her girlfriend are doing it, than my son and his boyfriend.

I don't know why,
I'm not homophobic, I just don't like the thought of two males doing things to eachother.

Like I said, they can do it all they want just not around me and don't mention it to me and it's fine.

You're homophobic, doll face. Just accept it, and move on.

And quite honestly, the whole being happier about who was "doing it" and with whom, is very disturbing.

Niamh. · 23-11-2010, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy

Well I think it's fair to say Patrick should be banned from having Children

I think if Patrick ever does have a daughter he may just change his mind on whether he'd let her sleep with anyone in his house, male or female!!

Vicky. · 23-11-2010, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamhxo

I think if Patrick ever does have a daughter he may just change his mind on whether he'd let her sleep with anyone in his house, male or female!!

Haha I was thinking this too actually. In general fathers are much more protective of daughters when it comes to stuff like sex than they would be of a son

letmein · 23-11-2010, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Patrick

That's bollocks.

DISCRIMINATING against them, Singling them out and saying Homophobic remarks is Homophobic.

Not wanting your child to ****** another man upstairs is not homophobic especially when I said he can do whatever he likes just not in my house.

Your entire premise is HOMOPHOBIC! Stop digging a bigger and bigger ditch for yourself! You don't even want the act happening in your own house. Think before you post, my dear.

Novo · 23-11-2010, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by letmein

You're homophobic, doll face. Just accept it, and move on.

And quite honestly, the whole being happier about who was "doing it" and with whom, is very disturbing.

It's perfectly normal that he doesn't like the Idea of two gay men having sex, he is straight after all... nothing homophobic here just you trying to make a big deal out of it

Benjamin · 23-11-2010, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by letmein

Your entire premise is HOMOPHOBIC! Stop digging a bigger and bigger ditch for yourself! You don't even want the act happening in your own house. Think before you post, my dear.

Like I have said before, doll face, being uncomfortable with something isn't homophobic.

Mystic Mock · 23-11-2010, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by ukturtle

Like I have said before, doll face, being uncomfortable with something isn't homophobic.

it is when he dosent mind his daughter having sex with a girl in his house.

Lee. · 23-11-2010, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by letmein

Your entire premise is HOMOPHOBIC! Stop digging a bigger and bigger ditch for yourself! You don't even want the act happening in your own house. Think before you post, my dear.

a lot (in fact most) straight men are uncomfortable at the thought of two men shagging.. Doesn't mean they feel hatred or contempt towards them. Not homophobia at all!

letmein · 23-11-2010, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Novo

It's perfectly normal that he doesn't like the Idea of two gay men having sex, he is straight after all... nothing homophobic here just you trying to make a big deal out of it

No, it is homophobic. Unless someone is doing it right out there in front of you, you're having an irrational reaction to it.