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Kerry · 28-05-2011, 10:58 PM

- stays on the stag/hen do

Do you agree with this mentality? I'm just watching Booze Britain - Brits abroad and hate it when I see men who are about to get married get off with other women (and vice versa)

Would you be fine with it if you later found out that your husband/wife had been doing anything from kiss to sleep with someone else just before you married? It's cheating isn't it?

Fetch The Bolt Cutters · 28-05-2011, 10:59 PM

no

Novo · 28-05-2011, 11:00 PM

Last night of freedom i would let them do as they want.

Kerry · 28-05-2011, 11:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Novo

Last night of freedom i would let them do as they want.

So if you'd been with your partner for say 5 years and you decide to marry, you'd be fine if they slept with someone a week before your marriage?

Novo · 28-05-2011, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

So if you'd been with your partner for say 5 years and you decide to marry, you'd be fine if they slept with someone a week before your marriage?

As long as they had a few showers after

Lee. · 29-05-2011, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Novo

As long as they had a few showers after

Lol.. you do make me laugh sometimes!

joeysteele · 28-05-2011, 11:00 PM

Yes.It is cheating and I would not be fine with it.I have seen it go on at stag nights I have been to,sadly it is seen as a last night of freedom by some when in fact it should really be the opposite.

Doogle · 28-05-2011, 11:02 PM

I wouldn't be fine at all. I don't see it as their "last night of freedom", I think that comes before you agree you're in a commited relationship rather than marriage.

Kerry · 28-05-2011, 11:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Doogle

I wouldn't be fine at all. I don't see it as their "last night of freedom", I think that comes before you agree you're in a commited relationship rather than marriage.

I think many use these 'parties' as an excuse. "Oh it was my hen/stag night, I'm allowed". Ridiculous

Doogle · 28-05-2011, 11:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

I think many use these 'parties' as an excuse. "Oh it was my hen/stag night, I'm allowed". Ridiculous

Agreed. I don't get why people would want to do that if they're about to get married the next day, which is meant to be "till death".

If/when I get married (which will be like 15 years from now LOL) I'm not going to do anything like that, I'm just gonna go out and have a good time. -will probably change mind in 15 years time-

Lee. · 28-05-2011, 11:07 PM

I think if anyone has to celebrate their last night of freedom, they aren't ready to commit/settle down.

Niamh. · 29-05-2011, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by happyland

I think if anyone has to celebrate their last night of freedom, they aren't ready to commit/settle down.

Absolutely spot on.

Grimnir · 29-05-2011, 10:49 AM

If a man has a stag do, you know already that he is the type of character who puts his mates first and girlfriend second. Women who have hen nights believe in their friends first and man second.
So why the surprise if the man/woman cheats when you know beforehand you are not the number one love of their life? You are not even 2nd or 3rd or 4th.
For them it goes family>mates>lover.
If someone priority was lover>family>mates then they would not want to even have a stag do/hen night in the first place. Instead they would want to have maybe a romantic night with each other. To me, this couple seems a lot more in "love"
You have zero grounds for complaint if man/woman cheats on stag/hen night as you have already accepted your status as being second to the mates.

Niamh. · 29-05-2011, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Grimnir

If a man has a stag do, you know already that he is the type of character who puts his mates first and girlfriend second. Women who have hen nights believe in their friends first and man second.
So why the surprise if the man/woman cheats when you know beforehand you are not the number one love of their life? You are not even 2nd or 3rd or 4th.
For them it goes family>mates>lover.
If someone priority was lover>family>mates then they would not want to even have a stag do/hen night in the first place. Instead they would want to have maybe a romantic night with each other. To me, this couple seems a lot more in "love"
You have zero grounds for complaint if man/woman cheats on stag/hen night as you have already accepted your status as being second to the mates.

that's the most ridiculous thing I've ever read. You think a good relationship means never spending time with your friends for a man?

Grimnir · 29-05-2011, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

that's the most ridiculous thing I've ever read. You think a good relationship means never spending time with your friends for a man?

If someone would rather spend time with their friends than husband/wife then its not really an important relationship is it.
It is nothing more than a buddy who you occasionally ******. ****** buddy.
So if one of them cheats, who cares really? It wasn't important to begin with

joeysteele · 29-05-2011, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by happyland

I think if anyone has to celebrate their last night of freedom, they aren't ready to commit/settle down.

100% right,

Ammi · 29-05-2011, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by happyland

I think if anyone has to celebrate their last night of freedom, they aren't ready to commit/settle down.

I agree, I would rather have a pamper hen do to de-stress for the big day than a p*** up, I don't understand the point in that. When its a stag night/weekend I think it should be a similar treat for the groom.

Lee. · 29-05-2011, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by rhino

I agree, I would rather have a pamper hen do to de-stress for the big day than a p*** up, I don't understand the point in that. When its a stag night/weekend I think it should be a similar treat for the groom.

Yeah, I can't actually think of anything worse than my friends dressing me up as a tacky bride, sticking penises on me and subjecting me to some god awful stripper.. I'd just be mortified. I'd much rather do something that I wouldn't usually do (I'm not sayiong it's the norm for me to go out with plastic penises on me)

On my sisters hen night, all the girls went for a good slap up Mexican meal, her hubby and co went for a traditionla lads curry and lager then we all met up and went clubbing and bride and groom to be went home together. It was a great night!

Ammi · 29-05-2011, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland

Yeah, I can't actually think of anything worse than my friends dressing me up as a tacky bride, sticking penises on me and subjecting me to some god awful stripper.. I'd just be mortified. I'd much rather do something that I wouldn't usually do (I'm not sayiong it's the norm for me to go out with plastic penises on me)
On my sisters hen night, all the girls went for a good slap up Mexican meal, her hubby and co went for a traditionla lads curry and lager then we all met up and went clubbing and bride and groom to be went home together. It was a great night!

My son's gf is on a hen party at the moment, they've gone for a pamper weekend and my son is going on a stag next weekend where they are all going paintballing and go karting, then they'll all have a few drinks after. Not a plastic penis in sight

Lee. · 29-05-2011, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by rhino

My son's gf is on a hen party at the moment, they've gone for a pamper weekend and my son is going on a stag next weekend where they are all going paintballing and go karting, then they'll all have a few drinks after. Not a plastic penis in sight

Lol.. but yeah that sounds much better. I always think you can actually go and get pissed any weekend you want. Pamper weekends etc sound bliss!

Z · 29-05-2011, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by happyland

Yeah, I can't actually think of anything worse than my friends dressing me up as a tacky bride, sticking penises on me and subjecting me to some god awful stripper.. I'd just be mortified. I'd much rather do something that I wouldn't usually do (I'm not sayiong it's the norm for me to go out with plastic penises on me)

Lolololol still totally sigging you Lee!

Yeah I agree if a couple are about to get married, which is the most serious relationship commitment a couple can make other than deciding to have children IMO, there shouldn't be a desire to get up to sleazy antics with strangers to 'celebrate their last night of freedom', just doesn't make sense to me.

Lee. · 29-05-2011, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Zee

Lolololol still totally sigging you Lee!

Yeah I agree if a couple are about to get married, which is the most serious relationship commitment a couple can make other than deciding to have children IMO, there shouldn't be a desire to get up to sleazy antics with strangers to 'celebrate their last night of freedom', just doesn't make sense to me.

Haaaaaaaaaaaahaha! nice sig!

And no, it makes no sense to me neither!

MTVN · 29-05-2011, 10:30 AM

I think the boundaries definitely get pushed a bit but I wouldnt say it's ok to actually have sex with another woman. I agree that what happens on a stag do should stay on a stag do though

CharlieO · 29-05-2011, 02:23 PM

I just think the content of what people do on those parties are up to the couple to agree their consent on.

Patrick · 29-05-2011, 03:08 PM

Agree with Andy.

At the end of the day - I'm the one that will have the bitch in my bed for years to come, the guy at the bar she ******ed the night before won't see her again.

Unless of course she got his number - but I'd check her phone straight after the wedding and delete all her male contacts. x

I would try and get off with at least 3 Women on my stag night - and if one of them is fitter than my wife, then guess who's not getting married the next day?

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