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CBB13 Celebrity Big Brother 2014 (CBB13) shown January 2014 was won by Jim Davidson. Discuss here. |
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18-01-2014, 02:43 PM | #26 | ||
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As far as I can see, there are two possibilities: 1. He's grown up/changed/got a handle on his drinking and emotions. 2. I've missed something in the papers. Last edited by Seraphim; 18-01-2014 at 02:51 PM. |
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18-01-2014, 02:52 PM | #27 | |||
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Tbh id want to do the same ifvsomeone stole from one of my friends.
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18-01-2014, 03:03 PM | #28 | |||
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He died of liver failure
Is that a polite way of saying he was a chronic alcoholic? |
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18-01-2014, 03:40 PM | #29 | ||
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A violent man who has beaten his wife, threatened to beat up someone inappropriately (as in the case of Linda's husband - what happened to the law dealing with theft?) and still uses violent words as a way to deal with situations can curb his instincts to use his fists and if so that is a good thing - but can that instinct really ever 'go away'? No - because Jim now uses passive - aggressiveness to deal with situations and that is a classic switch -over coping mechanism. He could have taken Linda aside and asked for a quiet word. He could have asked her what the problem was in a non - angry, quiet way and listened to her answer without interrupting. She would have got it off her chest and he would feel good for doing the right thing.Then they could perhaps have been able to move on. Walking away, ignoring her, sniping back at her and interrupting her (all classic passive - aggressive behaviour) only made the frustration in Linda worse and the vicious circle continued. There is only one way then it could have come to a head - Jim losing his cool and slipping up and that is indeed what happened. |
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18-01-2014, 03:48 PM | #30 | ||
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18-01-2014, 03:50 PM | #31 | ||
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he is 100% right. his name was dragged into it and he was innocent. its linda who is endlessly bringing up the past. such a sad bitter hypcrite
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18-01-2014, 04:02 PM | #32 | ||
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By the way, common sense and experience don't come from books alone. Methinks I have you rattled. lol Last edited by jet; 18-01-2014 at 04:04 PM. |
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18-01-2014, 04:07 PM | #33 | ||
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18-01-2014, 04:07 PM | #34 | ||
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18-01-2014, 04:09 PM | #35 | ||
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18-01-2014, 04:11 PM | #36 | ||
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impossible. she is a vile bitter jealous boring bile filled woman. she also displays no humour, social intelligence, self awareness etc I doubt any person on earth could really get along with such a person, nor would they want to
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18-01-2014, 04:12 PM | #37 | ||
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18-01-2014, 04:14 PM | #38 | ||||
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‘Jim blew his top when Linda’s husband was caught. He was playing up the road and he came down and went ballistic. He got right up to him and wanted to beat him up. He was yelling, “No one steals from my mates”. Linda and others got the two apart" If Jim had gone right up to someone then he had the opportunity to sock him one. This description doesn't say he socked him. It doesn't even say that Jim made any physical threats. We don't know why the person who reported the incident said that Jim wanted to beat him up. That might have been an exaggeration, or a mistaken idea formed by an onlooker. It might have been the truth, but you don't know and neither do I because we weren't there. Again, this incident happened about 20 years ago. Quote:
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18-01-2014, 04:18 PM | #39 | ||
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we can see thankfully how dishponest bullying and unpleasant linda is , thanks to big brother. she is a total psychological bully. this show unlike many others really exposes how some people behave 24 hours a day. bravo to big brother for at leats exposing this
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18-01-2014, 04:20 PM | #41 | |||
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Are you privy to some secret 24 hour a day live feed? We see a few edited minutes out of every 24 hours.
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18-01-2014, 04:22 PM | #42 | ||
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18-01-2014, 04:23 PM | #43 | ||
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18-01-2014, 04:26 PM | #44 | ||
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18-01-2014, 04:26 PM | #45 | ||
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My great respect for you yourself however remains 100% intact. What I want to say here however is, I actually applaud Jim's walking away from full confrontation, it is something Lee does too I have noticed. Speaking for myself, many times I have found myself in a situation where harsh words and a major argument could have likely blown up. I choose in the main,to walk away and far from finding it bottling up, I find if I go out for a walk or take my Dog for a walk, after a short time things can seem very different. On loads of occasions where I could have fallen out badly with someone,I have walked away, thought hard then came back,smiled and all is well. After that,I find anyway, the original problem,or a great deal of it, starts to pale into insignificance. So I do really applaud Jim for taking that action really,that's all I want to say. |
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18-01-2014, 04:28 PM | #46 | ||
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I'd just like to add this. If Jim was in any way as bad as Linda would like us to think, then why did she agree to be in the house with him? I witnessed a friend of mine being bullied by a boyfriend and I never spoke to him again, apart from telling him to give her the flowers he brought to me when he appeared on my doorstep the next day. I wouldn't let him in, and refused to speak to him again. If I'd agreed to be on a show then discovered he would be on it too, I'd have refused to go on, and given my explanation why. She took the job, and has spent the entire time bitching, carping, attacking and manipulating, and generally trying to make his life miserable. She has sucked the entire house into the drama and spoiled the atmosphere for everyone, including the viewers.
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18-01-2014, 04:29 PM | #47 | |||
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18-01-2014, 04:31 PM | #48 | |||
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18-01-2014, 04:40 PM | #49 | ||
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I agree with you that on many occasions just getting away for a walk puts a different perspective on things - but not if someone is holding long term anger and the person who they are angry with just keeps ignoring it, walking away, sniping back etc. - and CERTAINLY not if you are stuck in a house with them for weeks with nowhere else to go. |
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18-01-2014, 04:44 PM | #50 | |||
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