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Default Ebay seller told me to get stuffed and apologize to him

I bought something on Ebay for £2.99. But when it arrived it wasn't as I expected so I sent a message to the seller.

He basically said, 'don't blame us, you bought the wrong one!'

And if that wasn't rude enough, when I sent another message asking to return the item for a refund, he then replied, 'get stuffed or apologise to me first!'

Quite frankly I couldn't be bothered with the hassle or his bizarre attitude, so I gave the product to a friend.

But I could have reported the seller for being nasty and rude.
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Just give him a bad review, he won't like that
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Just give him a bad review, he won't like that
Yeah but he sounds crazy. He knows where I live. He sounds mad enough to get in his car and drive 200 miles to sort me out.
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Yeah but he sounds crazy. He knows where I live. He sounds mad enough to get in his car and drive 200 miles to sort me out.
He won't
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I won't take that chance, thanks.
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Yeah but he sounds crazy. He knows where I live. He sounds mad enough to get in his car and drive 200 miles to sort me out.
I highly doubt that.
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Yeah but he sounds crazy. He knows where I live. He sounds mad enough to get in his car and drive 200 miles to sort me out.
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I wouldn't bother with bad feedback for something 2.99 tbh. But the attitude, I would give bad feedback for.
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I wouldn't bother with bad feedback for something 2.99 tbh. But the attitude, I would give bad feedback for.
Appalling person. It was only a data cable.
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I love ebay, you can get your money back on anything and keep the item. Just open up a dispute in the resolution center.
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This can also be a pain in the arse when people file false disputes
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I hate ebay for the very same reason...I got a chargeback a few years back even though I had signature proof that the item was delivered (claimed it wasn't received, not claiming defective or anything) and ebay decided in their favour.

I now know its really not worth selling anything of value on there as ebay side with the scammers.
Yeah, I stopped selling on Ebay too. Not worth it unless you have a shop there. Although.. I think if you done signed for delivery and gave a tracking code, this wouldnt have happened.

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Why would you do that?
I dont, it was sarcasm. We need a sarcasm emoji. (I havent actually used Ebay for about 2 years after getting ripped off in the same way one too many times)

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To rip people like me off - i'm sick of constantly refunding people on ebay and i'm sure its people ripping me off , its not funny and e bay treats sellers like **** ! So well done Withano
They are ripping you off 9/10 times yes.

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I hate ebay for the very same reason...I got a chargeback a few years back even though I had signature proof that the item was delivered (claimed it wasn't received, not claiming defective or anything) and ebay decided in their favour.

I now know its really not worth selling anything of value on there as ebay side with the scammers.
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Why would you do that?
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To rip people like me off - i'm sick of constantly refunding people on ebay and i'm sure its people ripping me off , its not funny and e bay treats sellers like **** ! So well done Withano

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Too rip people like me off - i'm sick of constantly refunding people on ebay and i'm sure its people ripping me off , its not funny and e bay treats sellers like **** ! So well done Withano
I really just can't understand the mentality, it's no different to shop lifting, a lot of eBay sellers are sole traders who can't afford to lose stock if you can't pay for it why not do without it?
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Yes give him a bad review they hate that. One seller once spent 2-3 weeks asking me to remove the bad review. It felt good getting their desperate emails knowing I wouldn't remove the review and it was just about a phone case I think I posted about it in little things that irritate you thread. If you feel he could show up to your house I think you can report him.
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Yes give him a bad review they hate that. One seller once spent 2-3 weeks asking me to remove the bad review. It felt good getting their desperate emails knowing I wouldn't remove the review and it was just about a phone case I think I posted about it in little things that irritate you thread. If you feel he could show up to your house I think you can report him.
And people should give bad reviews as well, they're really helpful when you're thinking of buying something, I always read the reviews and if there's alot of bad ones I won't buy from that person
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Yes give him a bad review they hate that. One seller once spent 2-3 weeks asking me to remove the bad review. It felt good getting their desperate emails knowing I wouldn't remove the review and it was just about a phone case I think I posted about it in little things that irritate you thread. If you feel he could show up to your house I think you can report him.

Nah, I will prove I am better than him by moving on.


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I now know its really not worth selling anything of value on there as ebay side with the scammers.
I've had a chargeback too. For £280. I took my case to the Financial Ombudsman. Paypal lost and had to repay me the money.

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i've heard lots of horror stories about ebay, but never had a problem myself. and I've sold items up to a value of 5k ... guess i've just been lucky
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Did the buyer have a stated returns process on the listing?

If so instigate a returns process

If they did not ( and most do) just relist the item yourself and make sure that you give the buyer a negative (it sounds like he could have many already so another wont make a difference).
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Did the buyer have a stated returns process on the listing?

If so instigate a returns process


If they did not ( and most do) just relist the item yourself and make sure that you give the buyer a negative (it sounds like he could have many already so another wont make a difference).

I would do that if it were something costing more than £5, but as I say I have given the cable to a friend so, it's OK.
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