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CBB21 Celebrity Big Brother January 2018 [CBB 21] (dubbed Year of the Women). Discuss the housemates and series - which was won by Courtney Act - here.
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07-01-2018, 11:51 AM | #126 | ||
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Agreeing that people have the right to determine how they want to live does not necessarily dictate that they should agree with the rationale behind the decision. As with religion, I may respect that someone converts to Catholicism, but I don’t have to genuflect whenever I walk past a cross. How can anyone demanding the right to identify as they desire criticise others for doing the same thing? Sounds like in this instance a main driver is an external locus of validation and a need to accordingly assert control through her own sense of gender identity. This is abusive, especially whee others might be paralysed by a fear of offending, and India is clever enough to be aware of this. Last edited by optimisticcynic; 07-01-2018 at 11:52 AM. |
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Imo there's a false equivalency being made between refusing to date a transwoman and just preferring blondes or not wanting to go out with older women which misses the point that India is trying to make. Being a transsexual is not an aspect of appearance. By refusing to even entertain the idea of being with a transwoman you are putting up an insurmountable barrier to a transwomans hopes of being accepted as a woman at all.
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07-01-2018, 11:54 AM | #128 | ||
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Exactly. It is not up to some to decide who others should/should not want to date. We all have personal preferences from the large to the small. No one wants to live in that kind of nanny state.
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07-01-2018, 11:55 AM | #129 | |||
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07-01-2018, 11:58 AM | #130 | |||
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Trans women have been men. Surely they must know that not all men will want to be with someone who has a manmade vagina and who used to be a male. Alternatively there will be other men who adore trans women. And as for acceptance... there is a huge section of society that doesn't see trans women as "real women". Because they're not. They are transsexual women. I've said this before but it's worth saying again... transsexual women are not the same as those of us born a woman... but they are worth exactly the same. |
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07-01-2018, 11:59 AM | #131 | ||
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07-01-2018, 12:00 PM | #132 | |||
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I'm sure there are some out there who would only date transgenders. There is at least some 'preference' in it - it doesnt instantly come down to transphobia.
I get why India is upset in a way, but I think she's too self-centric to understand any type of negativity related to her.
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07-01-2018, 12:01 PM | #133 | |||
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07-01-2018, 12:05 PM | #134 | |||
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07-01-2018, 12:08 PM | #135 | ||
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07-01-2018, 12:08 PM | #136 | ||
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07-01-2018, 12:10 PM | #137 | ||
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We all get hurt by rejection. It is a fact of life for all of us that we cannot be protected from. India is no exception. For crying out loud she is over 50 and needs to grow up.
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07-01-2018, 12:10 PM | #138 | |||
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If we take it right back to basics, and this is very applicable in the case of Ginuwine as he has 9 kids. To many in society, procreation is about bringing new generations into the world, its a base instinct across all animals for survival of the species. To interfere with that natural process is next to impossible as it is in the DNA
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07-01-2018, 01:14 PM | #139 | ||
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Gender is a social construct...nothing more than personality + dress sense when it comes down to it. Sex is real, and unchangeable with science as it stands today, and India does not even slightly 'pass' so India has no chance with anyone who is solely attracted to female people.
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07-01-2018, 01:20 PM | #140 | ||
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07-01-2018, 01:24 PM | #141 | ||
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Intrigued to know more. Last edited by optimisticcynic; 07-01-2018 at 01:26 PM. |
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07-01-2018, 01:27 PM | #142 | |||
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They are worth as much, but trans women are not the same as born women. And no one has the right to tell me I am not entitled to that opinion. |
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07-01-2018, 01:28 PM | #144 | ||
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If we did not live in such a 'gendered' society, I really doubt many trans people would exist, if men could wear dresses and sparkles without other people taking the piss and such. There would still be people with sex dysphoria, much in the way there will still be anorexic people even if the world stops being so obsessed with thinness...but there would not be as many as there are today, thats for sure. For so many 'transgender' people it seems to be about stereotypes rather than body. And its body, not stereotypes that make someone male or female. FFS if we are going on stereotypes followed, I am actually male. if we are going on 'internal gender identity' then I do not exist at all as I do not have one and do not believe in souls.
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07-01-2018, 01:32 PM | #145 | ||
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You're either sexually attracted to them or you're not. |
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07-01-2018, 01:40 PM | #146 | |||
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07-01-2018, 01:43 PM | #147 | ||
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Sex matters. Trans people rarely pass. Especially transwomen. Would you shag India? Even if trans people pass..SRS is not advanced enough to be the same as a biological opposite sex body. Its unfortunately for trans people, but thats how it is.
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07-01-2018, 01:49 PM | #148 | ||
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It's just a matter of preference, nothing wrong with it and you can't really help who you are attracted to or not. Some people prefer certain builds or hair colours, some people just aren't attracted to certain things and I don't think that's prejudice in any way shape or form.
Malika pretty much nailed the situation on the head. |
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07-01-2018, 01:49 PM | #149 | |||
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Well I dunno, I dont know how sexuality works lol. I'm not sure about India but there are a lot of transwomen who I think most straight men would be sexually attracted to if they didn't know they were trans
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07-01-2018, 01:54 PM | #150 | ||
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If someone passed 100% as a woman, could you shag them and their penis? Or get over the fact that their vagina is not a vagina, its an open wound that needs dilating and is either made of inverted penis or colon? Nothing like a 'real' vagina'. I know this is personal...just curious how many men would be able to get over their sexuality in that way, as I suspect a lot of people just pay lip service to it and would not actually be able to do it. I am bi and still could not see myself ever with a transperson...and sex is not even important for me as I like both!
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