[parmnion]

Kez brillo and cherie to name a couple....hmmmmm..

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

I've noticed whenever Brillo makes a comment its the same people who come back at her trying to give her a hard time. I admire her, she speaks a lot of sense and isn't afraid to speak her mind. I hope Brillo never leaves the forum. I'm not here that much but I see the same bunch of members that make snarky comments to the ones who aren't part of the 'clique' Well to me it does feel clique sometimes. Probably why I'm not here much because a lot of people on here try to make out you are a bad person just for having a different view to them. I guess I keep coming back because thankfully there are some people on the forum who are actually nice people, Kazanne, Brillo and Cherie to name a couple

I actually think it can be cliquey but not even in the sense of people liking or supporting each other... it's just an old forum with a small userbase and a lot of people who have been here for a long time and have "history". It's basically one massive "clique" to anyone outside of it but pretty much everyone INSIDE the clique argues all the time & lowkey hates each other. But like if some other rival forum turned up and gave anyone a hard time, everyone would band together like "HEY! You leave that TiBBer alone! Only TiBB folks is allowed to insult other TiBB folks "

Also there's another separate clique that goes in Chat and that Private thread but we don't like to think about them too much.

[parmnion]

I bet the truth would be allowed back for that scenario though..

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Well I mean the proof is in the pudding

Previously banned members have been allowed to return and haven’t changed, clearly there’s no “probation period” because of there was most of them would have failed.

I’m sure mods do discuss letting members back onto the site, but at the same time, once said members are back, the probability of them being repermabanned is slim to none

It is discussed, all mods may not agree all the time but we go with the majority opinion.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Withano

Right.. but coming into threads, ignoring the OP, and instantly replying in disagreeance with someone whilst usually talking about herself or others wont help, obviously. Its what happened in this thread, its what happens regularly when she gets into SD&N.

Only when you are in it and focusing on me. You talk about me obsessively. You’re not my type so bog off and obsess about someone else.

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It is discussed, all mods may not agree all the time but we go with the majority opinion.

(i.e. if you piss off too many staff members in a short period of time, you're ****ed, but if it's just one you'll be OK)

[LeatherTrumpet]

So are we all agreed its time to welcome back The Truth?

I take it that is why this thread exists?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

(i.e. if you piss off too many staff members in a short period of time, you're ****ed, but if it's just one you'll be OK)

Not really there are members I don't like very much but still wouldn't support perms banning them

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It is discussed, all mods may not agree all the time but we go with the majority opinion.

Id love to see the majority opinion on keeping a member previously permabanned, then banned again for a further 6 months before being allowed to return

Or the majority opinion on keeping around a bigoted misogynist on the forum for years, despite numerous people being offended

OR the majority opinion on keeping any member around in general who quite clearly hasn’t changed since their permaban


Like I said, it’s obviously all about the number of members as apposed to the quality of them

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

So are we all agreed its time to welcome back The Truth?

I take it that is why this thread exists?

Sorry do you not get bored constantly winding people up? Why are you even allowed to post in this section when you haven’t added a single constructive post to the thread?

Genuine question

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Omg I didn't know brillopad was wombai?! If that's true then heyyyyy!!! I missed your presence on the forum, I don't post in serious debates ever so I rarely see your posts anymore. Hope you're well!!



Thank you, I appreciate these posts

Not two perma's being best pals.

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Not two perma's being best pals.

Yeah but you got the wrong one, MMI comes first

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Sorry do you not get bored constantly winding people up? Why are you even allowed to post in this section when you haven’t added a single constructive post to the thread?

Genuine question

Lighten up Smithy fgs anyway I don't have much more to add to this discussion so I'll leave you to it

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

He... he did WHAT?? Oh JESUS CHRIST the humanity!?!? I thought things were bad in SD's

It sounds petty the quiz side of it but the way he went about it was deliberately to provoke and target another member with some nasty stuff so it's worth bringing up tbh.

[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Only when you are in it and focusing on me. You talk about me obsessively. You’re not my type so bog off and obsess about someone else.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Sorry do you not get bored constantly winding people up? Why are you even allowed to post in this section when you haven’t added a single constructive post to the thread?

Genuine question

because, love, you dont get a vote on who posts, what their "quality" is and why they post

so pipe down and realise you aint anything special and no on has to listen to a word you say nor particularly wants to

when i want your opinion on what i do here I will pm you

[Toy Soldier]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Sorry do you not get bored constantly winding people up? Why are you even allowed to post in this section when you haven’t added a single constructive post to the thread?

Genuine question

LT is a clique member. We don't like it but it's just something we have to put up with. Like that one uncle that gets a bit over-familiar at gatherings but he's family so you still have to invite him.

[smudgie]

Oh how I love this forum

Cheers me up no end.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Well I mean the proof is in the pudding

Previously banned members have been allowed to return and haven’t changed, clearly there’s no “probation period” because of there was most of them would have failed.

I’m sure mods do discuss letting members back onto the site, but at the same time, once said members are back, the probability of them being repermabanned is slim to none

What a charmer you are. You just want to permaban everyone you don’t like and cast them into the abyss. Get a life fgs.

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

LT is a clique member. We don't like it but it's just something we have to put up with. Like that one uncle that gets a bit over-familiar at gatherings but he's family so you still have to invite him.

yep, i am an admin fave and people will just have to deal with it

even the junior member for subscriptions from Guernsey

[LeatherTrumpet]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

What a charmer you are. You just want to permaban everyone you don’t like and cast them into the abyss. Get a life fgs.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

because, love, you dont get a vote on who posts, what their "quality" is and why they post

so pipe down and realise you aint anything special and no on has to listen to a word you say nor particularly wants to

when i want your opinion on what i do here I will pm you

Here, here.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

He... he did WHAT?? Oh JESUS CHRIST the humanity!?!? I thought things were bad in SD's

You can be sarcastic if it suits but I think what he did was genuinely nasty. Creating an account offsite with the soul purpose of disruption and having an innocent person blamed is pathetic and cruel.

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Lighten up Smithy fgs anyway I don't have much more to add to this discussion so I'll leave you to it

Ok, I mean it’s serious debates so why post anything that actually contributes to the discussion eh

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Only when you are in it and focusing on me. You talk about me obsessively. You’re not my type so bog off and obsess about someone else.

*talks about myself and other forum members for 45 posts, without noticing or responding to the thread topic once*

Wow. Can you stop focussing on me. Its too much.

*continues to ignore thread topic, and continues to talk about myself and other forum members*

Wow seriously you guys, stop

*talks more about me #me*

I'm just trying to get through the day here, you guys.