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Old 22-06-2020, 05:49 PM #1
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Default What would you do?

If your best friend suddenly out of the blue cut you off without a word when everything was fine between you.

If they didn't return your texts...didn't answer their phone...blocked you on facebook. Etc.

It would be like they had died.

Would you take it on the chin? Or move heaven and earth to find out whats wrong?
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Old 22-06-2020, 06:05 PM #2
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Its just happened to me. I feel like I have been bereaved.
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I can't imagine any of my friends doing that.

If it happened, I'd seek them out probably to ask why.
However, I wouldn't press the issue.
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It (kind of) happened to me, reply’s just became one word answers and it took longer and longer to reply.

It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss noodle headed prick
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It (kind of) happened to me, reply’s just became one word answers and it took longer and longer to reply.

It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss noodle headed prick
It is horrible yes.
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If it were my best friend I would go to her hoise for an explanation. I couldn't not know what I was supposed to have done.

Might be lockdown fever Kate....give her some time
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Might be lockdown fever Kate....give her some time
Exactly. I don't know what is wrong??
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It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss noodle headed prick
Is this that giant forehead having billboard forehead looking ass
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It’s horrible, it feels like a break up except you don’t even know what you did. I just left it, I wasn’t going to look a twat questioning them, it’s their loss noodle headed prick
Scott doesn't look like a noodle.
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I don't want replies about bloody noodles
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I can't imagine any of my true friends doing that either.

Imagine not replying to someone when you ask them a question...

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Nnnn yeah
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Not the same as a best friend doing it but I had it done by someone I was seeing/dating and uh yeah, it’s not pleasant. Best thing you can do is to leave it imo, as hard as it is.
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Txt..

Have I done something to upset you.
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Have I done something to upset you.
Ignoring all my texts phonecalls and facebook messages.
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Ignoring all my texts phonecalls and facebook messages.

Shred them.

Or give them a week then try again.


I just hope you ain't upset pal x
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Shred them.

Or give them a week then try again.


I just hope you ain't upset pal x
I am Parmy. Not eating or sleepimg well at all.
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Have a blether with annie..shes an honest person.

Got a joke for you if you want
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Just keep it moving. Try calling and speaking to them (don't text or message) once more and ask what the problem is, if he/she doesn't reply just move on.
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The joke isn't the first line?
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Just keep it moving. Try calling and speaking to them (don't text or message) once more and ask what the problem is, if he/she doesn't reply just move on.
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Just keep it moving. Try calling and speaking to them (don't text or message) once more and ask what the problem is, if he/she doesn't reply just move on.
This. This. This.

I’ve had many friends move on from me. It used to hurt and make me question why, but I don’t really care right now.

In my case it was mostly due to me no longer being Interested in taking every drug or drink I can get my hands on anymore and generally not wanting to have many nights out or “memories” like that anymore and before that it was growing out of the “hood” mindset.

The quicker you realise your self worth and that a friendship thrown away THAT easily was never one worth having, then the better for your mindset. Just straight up ask them what’s up and if you don’t like the response then it’s better off without.
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